Rob Henderson

yeah i you get sort of older you get set in your ways you find it harder to you know introduce someone into your life when you're young you're just more flexible and you're probably more willing to relocate you're probably more willing to maybe change up careers there's so many other things you can do when you're young that becomes harder when you're old um or older anyway but on the other hand i could imagine the argument going going the the opposite way where

yeah i you get sort of older you get set in your ways you find it harder to you know introduce someone into your life when you're young you're just more flexible and you're probably more willing to relocate you're probably more willing to maybe change up careers there's so many other things you can do when you're young that becomes harder when you're old um or older anyway but on the other hand i could imagine the argument going going the the opposite way where

you know, when you look at there was there was this interesting thing from the Institute for Family Studies about sort of the optimal age for marriage to reduce likelihood of divorce, that it was the case that if you get married very young, divorce rates are higher than average, maybe because you're immature, because maybe financially strapped, those kinds of things.

you know, when you look at there was there was this interesting thing from the Institute for Family Studies about sort of the optimal age for marriage to reduce likelihood of divorce, that it was the case that if you get married very young, divorce rates are higher than average, maybe because you're immature, because maybe financially strapped, those kinds of things.

you know, when you look at there was there was this interesting thing from the Institute for Family Studies about sort of the optimal age for marriage to reduce likelihood of divorce, that it was the case that if you get married very young, divorce rates are higher than average, maybe because you're immature, because maybe financially strapped, those kinds of things.

But then at a certain point, it starts to sort of this what is it sort of a U shaped curve here where around

But then at a certain point, it starts to sort of this what is it sort of a U shaped curve here where around

But then at a certain point, it starts to sort of this what is it sort of a U shaped curve here where around

30 or 31 that was kind of the ideal as far as like the lowest likelihood of getting divorced and then once you sort of reach your mid late 30s it starts to creep up again and so i do wonder yeah what's what's um it could also be the case though that like for most people if you haven't found a partner by your mid late 30s that um you know maybe there's something going on with you um that uh that makes it difficult to to find a partner

30 or 31 that was kind of the ideal as far as like the lowest likelihood of getting divorced and then once you sort of reach your mid late 30s it starts to creep up again and so i do wonder yeah what's what's um it could also be the case though that like for most people if you haven't found a partner by your mid late 30s that um you know maybe there's something going on with you um that uh that makes it difficult to to find a partner

30 or 31 that was kind of the ideal as far as like the lowest likelihood of getting divorced and then once you sort of reach your mid late 30s it starts to creep up again and so i do wonder yeah what's what's um it could also be the case though that like for most people if you haven't found a partner by your mid late 30s that um you know maybe there's something going on with you um that uh that makes it difficult to to find a partner

Yeah, yeah, yeah. What is this all for that kind of thing? Like, you know, eventually, you're going to want family, you're going to want kids and grandkids and all those kinds of things. And yeah, I think it's, I wonder if like the reason for that for Gen Z, like, where are they looking to as far as sort of role models and guidance?

Yeah, yeah, yeah. What is this all for that kind of thing? Like, you know, eventually, you're going to want family, you're going to want kids and grandkids and all those kinds of things. And yeah, I think it's, I wonder if like the reason for that for Gen Z, like, where are they looking to as far as sort of role models and guidance?

Yeah, yeah, yeah. What is this all for that kind of thing? Like, you know, eventually, you're going to want family, you're going to want kids and grandkids and all those kinds of things. And yeah, I think it's, I wonder if like the reason for that for Gen Z, like, where are they looking to as far as sort of role models and guidance?

And, you know, you mentioned sort of you and me, like, I think that You know, this sort of path of, you know, prioritizing, if you have a kind of an unusual career that requires a lot of time and a lot of commitment, a lot of hours, and you also derive a lot of meaning and satisfaction for it, then that's great. That can work for a lot of people, but that's not going to work for everyone.

And, you know, you mentioned sort of you and me, like, I think that You know, this sort of path of, you know, prioritizing, if you have a kind of an unusual career that requires a lot of time and a lot of commitment, a lot of hours, and you also derive a lot of meaning and satisfaction for it, then that's great. That can work for a lot of people, but that's not going to work for everyone.

And, you know, you mentioned sort of you and me, like, I think that You know, this sort of path of, you know, prioritizing, if you have a kind of an unusual career that requires a lot of time and a lot of commitment, a lot of hours, and you also derive a lot of meaning and satisfaction for it, then that's great. That can work for a lot of people, but that's not going to work for everyone.

Jordan Peterson points this out, that for most people, living a conventional life is actually your best shot at happiness. That for most people, getting married, settling down, having kids, having a family, all those kinds of things, that for most people is a good path. Unless there's some extraordinary reason why that isn't the right path.

Jordan Peterson points this out, that for most people, living a conventional life is actually your best shot at happiness. That for most people, getting married, settling down, having kids, having a family, all those kinds of things, that for most people is a good path. Unless there's some extraordinary reason why that isn't the right path.

Jordan Peterson points this out, that for most people, living a conventional life is actually your best shot at happiness. That for most people, getting married, settling down, having kids, having a family, all those kinds of things, that for most people is a good path. Unless there's some extraordinary reason why that isn't the right path.