Rob Henderson

you know, the other person's personality and learn about that person during those low times is basically to give it some time, give it some space, allow their relationship to develop. Because, you know, when you're first dating someone that you like, you're on your best behavior. You're showing the best parts of yourself, the most interesting, witty, dynamic, everything.

you know, the other person's personality and learn about that person during those low times is basically to give it some time, give it some space, allow their relationship to develop. Because, you know, when you're first dating someone that you like, you're on your best behavior. You're showing the best parts of yourself, the most interesting, witty, dynamic, everything.

You're trying to impress this person. You want them to like you. And they're doing the same to you as well. You're showing each other the best versions of yourself. But one thing that the psychologist Sean T. Smith points out, he wrote a book about commitment, is that generally speaking...

You're trying to impress this person. You want them to like you. And they're doing the same to you as well. You're showing each other the best versions of yourself. But one thing that the psychologist Sean T. Smith points out, he wrote a book about commitment, is that generally speaking...

You're trying to impress this person. You want them to like you. And they're doing the same to you as well. You're showing each other the best versions of yourself. But one thing that the psychologist Sean T. Smith points out, he wrote a book about commitment, is that generally speaking...

About a six month mark, the rule of thumb is after about six months, you do start to learn about that person and basically reveal their true selves to you and how they're really like and how they handle pressure and what they're like when they're sleep deprived, what they're like when they're jet lagged, what they're like when they're having a bad day at work.

About a six month mark, the rule of thumb is after about six months, you do start to learn about that person and basically reveal their true selves to you and how they're really like and how they handle pressure and what they're like when they're sleep deprived, what they're like when they're jet lagged, what they're like when they're having a bad day at work.

About a six month mark, the rule of thumb is after about six months, you do start to learn about that person and basically reveal their true selves to you and how they're really like and how they handle pressure and what they're like when they're sleep deprived, what they're like when they're jet lagged, what they're like when they're having a bad day at work.

and you know for the first couple of months if you have a bad day at work you still you're so excited to see the person you like that the bad day doesn't even bother you but after six months after you sort of uh become accustomed to the relationship then you are more likely to to expose those other sides of yourself so i think that's important too is that i think a lot of people they jump into a relationship it seems so exciting and then they don't realize that um

and you know for the first couple of months if you have a bad day at work you still you're so excited to see the person you like that the bad day doesn't even bother you but after six months after you sort of uh become accustomed to the relationship then you are more likely to to expose those other sides of yourself so i think that's important too is that i think a lot of people they jump into a relationship it seems so exciting and then they don't realize that um

and you know for the first couple of months if you have a bad day at work you still you're so excited to see the person you like that the bad day doesn't even bother you but after six months after you sort of uh become accustomed to the relationship then you are more likely to to expose those other sides of yourself so i think that's important too is that i think a lot of people they jump into a relationship it seems so exciting and then they don't realize that um

you know people are different at different stages of the relationship you got to give it time you got to allow them to sort of reveal themselves to you um and then i think it also helps i can't remember who said this might have been on your podcast someone pointed out that a good way to see what another person is like in a relationship is to go on a trip with that that was rogan that was rogan oh yeah on my episode that i did with him the other week where he's like you gotta go on a long trip you gotta go on a long trip and you gotta go somewhere stressful and you gotta go on a long journey

you know people are different at different stages of the relationship you got to give it time you got to allow them to sort of reveal themselves to you um and then i think it also helps i can't remember who said this might have been on your podcast someone pointed out that a good way to see what another person is like in a relationship is to go on a trip with that that was rogan that was rogan oh yeah on my episode that i did with him the other week where he's like you gotta go on a long trip you gotta go on a long trip and you gotta go somewhere stressful and you gotta go on a long journey

you know people are different at different stages of the relationship you got to give it time you got to allow them to sort of reveal themselves to you um and then i think it also helps i can't remember who said this might have been on your podcast someone pointed out that a good way to see what another person is like in a relationship is to go on a trip with that that was rogan that was rogan oh yeah on my episode that i did with him the other week where he's like you gotta go on a long trip you gotta go on a long trip and you gotta go somewhere stressful and you gotta go on a long journey

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Jet lag, you know, yeah, yeah. Maybe travel coach, you know, like like put it like put as much sort of like stress test the relationship. Maybe seal hell week. Yeah, there we go. And then you'll see, you know, like, oh, that's what this person is like under unpredictable circumstances out of the sort of rosy glow of everyday predictable life.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Jet lag, you know, yeah, yeah. Maybe travel coach, you know, like like put it like put as much sort of like stress test the relationship. Maybe seal hell week. Yeah, there we go. And then you'll see, you know, like, oh, that's what this person is like under unpredictable circumstances out of the sort of rosy glow of everyday predictable life.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Jet lag, you know, yeah, yeah. Maybe travel coach, you know, like like put it like put as much sort of like stress test the relationship. Maybe seal hell week. Yeah, there we go. And then you'll see, you know, like, oh, that's what this person is like under unpredictable circumstances out of the sort of rosy glow of everyday predictable life.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I guess, yeah, if you look at the opposite, so you're being unclear and uninquisitive, uncurious about the other person. But yeah, the green flag is, yeah, to be transparent, to say what you mean, to be clear about what your intentions are, what you'd like.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I guess, yeah, if you look at the opposite, so you're being unclear and uninquisitive, uncurious about the other person. But yeah, the green flag is, yeah, to be transparent, to say what you mean, to be clear about what your intentions are, what you'd like.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I guess, yeah, if you look at the opposite, so you're being unclear and uninquisitive, uncurious about the other person. But yeah, the green flag is, yeah, to be transparent, to say what you mean, to be clear about what your intentions are, what you'd like.