Rob Henderson

But other people, they kind of spiral out like they get angry and then they keep they look for more reasons to get angry. And then suddenly they're off on a on a different path.

And so you want someone who's able to control their own emotions, who doesn't mean not be emotional, but just able to sort of understand that this is what I'm going through, that they're able to identify and label their emotions. This was an interesting finding from, I think the guy's name is Lawrence Ian Reid. He's a professor at NYU. He talks about how...

And so you want someone who's able to control their own emotions, who doesn't mean not be emotional, but just able to sort of understand that this is what I'm going through, that they're able to identify and label their emotions. This was an interesting finding from, I think the guy's name is Lawrence Ian Reid. He's a professor at NYU. He talks about how...

And so you want someone who's able to control their own emotions, who doesn't mean not be emotional, but just able to sort of understand that this is what I'm going through, that they're able to identify and label their emotions. This was an interesting finding from, I think the guy's name is Lawrence Ian Reid. He's a professor at NYU. He talks about how...

people with borderline personality disorder, which generally afflicts on average women more so than men, one of the hallmarks of borderline personality disorder is the inability to understand and articulate and verbalize what you're feeling.

people with borderline personality disorder, which generally afflicts on average women more so than men, one of the hallmarks of borderline personality disorder is the inability to understand and articulate and verbalize what you're feeling.

people with borderline personality disorder, which generally afflicts on average women more so than men, one of the hallmarks of borderline personality disorder is the inability to understand and articulate and verbalize what you're feeling.

So these people, they're kind of like, I'm feeling this thing and very clearly it's negative, but I can't tell the difference between ordinary anger or rage or irritation or just sort of being mildly or moderately upset that it's sort of all or none.

So these people, they're kind of like, I'm feeling this thing and very clearly it's negative, but I can't tell the difference between ordinary anger or rage or irritation or just sort of being mildly or moderately upset that it's sort of all or none.

So these people, they're kind of like, I'm feeling this thing and very clearly it's negative, but I can't tell the difference between ordinary anger or rage or irritation or just sort of being mildly or moderately upset that it's sort of all or none.

They generally know they're feeling good or bad, but then when it comes to sort of isolating, well, this is what I'm feeling and this is how you're making me feel and here's how it came about, it's difficult for them. Yeah. And, you know, it's sort of a spectrum, you know, it's you got to be careful, you know, basically finding people who are unable to do that.

They generally know they're feeling good or bad, but then when it comes to sort of isolating, well, this is what I'm feeling and this is how you're making me feel and here's how it came about, it's difficult for them. Yeah. And, you know, it's sort of a spectrum, you know, it's you got to be careful, you know, basically finding people who are unable to do that.

They generally know they're feeling good or bad, but then when it comes to sort of isolating, well, this is what I'm feeling and this is how you're making me feel and here's how it came about, it's difficult for them. Yeah. And, you know, it's sort of a spectrum, you know, it's you got to be careful, you know, basically finding people who are unable to do that.

And then and then, yeah, one of the green flags is, you know, someone who's stable, someone who's able to control themselves, who's able to communicate. And one point I try to make in that piece is. Communication is even more important during a period of emotional tension and dispute and hostility of someone does something that upsets someone else.

And then and then, yeah, one of the green flags is, you know, someone who's stable, someone who's able to control themselves, who's able to communicate. And one point I try to make in that piece is. Communication is even more important during a period of emotional tension and dispute and hostility of someone does something that upsets someone else.

And then and then, yeah, one of the green flags is, you know, someone who's stable, someone who's able to control themselves, who's able to communicate. And one point I try to make in that piece is. Communication is even more important during a period of emotional tension and dispute and hostility of someone does something that upsets someone else.

That's when communication becomes even more important than it otherwise would be.

That's when communication becomes even more important than it otherwise would be.

That's when communication becomes even more important than it otherwise would be.

you know, the other person's personality and learn about that person during those low times is basically to give it some time, give it some space, allow their relationship to develop. Because, you know, when you're first dating someone that you like, you're on your best behavior. You're showing the best parts of yourself, the most interesting, witty, dynamic, everything.