Robert Glazer

They're also rushing to alignment before clarity.

When they really have clarity, someone sent me this list yesterday.

He's like, these are my values.

Like,

man, this is like so me and it's so clear and you have that epiphany.

Okay, once you have the clarity, then it's super easy to look across those big three.

My relationship, my partner, my community, my work, are these things aligned?

People I'm spending time with, the people I'm doing it with, am I in a dead-end relationship?

One of the things around, I'm not trying to get people to break up, but when you think about dating sites these days, they are all, as we said before, interestingly, when you lean on married people, they are opposite on a lot of these personality tests because there's some harmony.

Dating sites, the problem has been it's kind of like finding your clone or your best friend.

Like, oh, we both like this music and we like to ski and we like whatever, but we don't share values.

We don't look at the world the same way.

We don't have the same operating system.

So that's a really important look for people.

And I think it's been really clarifying.

We had a leader on our team who was doing the core values years ago.

I was coaching her.

She actually came back to me and was excited about them.

And then she had this weird five-second sort of look on her face.

And I was like, what's wrong?