Robert Glazer

Are they not right?

And she's like, no, they're totally right.

I just realized she was in the middle of going through a divorce that my ex is the opposite of three of these.

Right.

And so my answer was like, that's not surprising.

Like, that's hard, but it's not surprising.

Implementation factor is really confident decisions, big and small.

Like I'm going to walk away on this.

If you looked at my life, I walked away from a lot of things and I started doubling down on other things that were clearly aligned.

When I talk about the big three, the partner, vocation and community, the one that people keeps coming up is like community.

They're like, you know what?

I really overlooked my community.

Like I'm a we should all get along and share perspectives person.

And I live in a just political town where everyone has a red or a blue sign.

And like.

This just isn't me or I'm in groups that aren't aligned with me or I have friends who are bringing me down.

So I think the community one is the one because environments, it's really hard to display the opposite behavior that your environment is playing.

Right.

Willpower is a resource that's diminished easily.

The best way you can maintain willpower.