Rosa Lewis

It's sort of a step back where you're starting in the presence and starting in the kind of like truth of what's in the present moment for you.

And then there's another thing, which is the other way that people can go is being polite and hiding and not saying what is true and being a sort of people pleaser.

And then they need to sort of be pulled in a bit more into saying the hard thing.

And then they might get the feedback from people that they're being a bit of a jerk by saying the hard thing.

And sometimes you just have to cut through people's desires for you to be sort of sweet and nice in some ways.

Yeah, it's like using the heart as the compass of what is first connecting to what is wholeheartedly true.

And then being able to speak that.

And I think there's something as well, which is, I think I mentioned this in the sacred sadness.

It feels like that in terms of gender, it's like men explicitly are not given space to feel sadness.

And it feels like that's really important that men have given space to cry and feel sad.

And then this has almost a bit the opposite where it's like women are often not given space to speak difficult truths.

And that's really important that that's given space.

Yeah.

Yes.

Society asks a lot of people, and

I guess there's like a clarity that can come online where being well-boundaried and saying no in a modern busy life, it's almost like if you're not super busy all the time, overextended, doing a million things, then you're not enough or something.

There's like a societal message in there.

And actually just being like, no, I didn't want to do that.

And that's no for me.

That, to me, is good potency and Kali energy of just clarity of what is truly aligned for you and what actually really serves the truth of yourself and experience from a deep level.