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And the research, because I'm a bit obsessed with research in my job as a teacher, the research at the time when it came to coughing syncope showed me there were mainly men in their 50s and they'd been long distance lorry drivers.

And I remember looking at the time going, hmm.

They are men in their 50s.

She's nine.

I've never smoked.

Don't get the connection.

And I remember showing it to the doctor and didn't get the connection.

It wasn't a thing that a child got.

So it didn't make sense she had it.

See, I can see her dancing.

And Ella used to, like, jump on the sofa.

So you know how Justin used to jump.

I'm like, Mama, don't break your neck.

Seriously, Mama, don't break it.

We have enough problems, I used to say to her.

And I remember that night she was in the playroom on the computer playing Skyfall again and again.

And I remember because it was Valentine's Day and I'd gone and bought food, I was cooking.

I was like, look, you need to go and have a shower and be ready to come and eat because we needed to eat by a certain time.

You know, we had school the following day.

And I remember, so my kids will say to you, oh, mum shouted at her the night before she left.