Rox

No, let me finish.

You've had your time.

All I'm saying is you literally just said, I would rather.

And how you described I would rather is exactly how I would do it, which is methodically, in plenty of time, room by room.

And then I'd probably ensure that everybody that is in the house before the guests come over, fully aware to not make a mess or if they do tidy up after themselves.

So it's all like calm and vibe, ready for the guests.

No, not the guests, as in the people in the house before the guests get here.

So in my situation, I'd tidy up two days before the guests were getting here.

And then I would tell Rox and Sia if they were here, you make a mess, tidy it up.

The house is tidy, ready for the guests in two days.

You were just about to celebrate then, weren't you?

Do you want to go to round two or are you deflated now?

I might have to take the L on this one.

The house is a complete mess.

What happens in your brain?

So I can't, my reaction to a messy house is unhealthy.

So I am fueled with anxiety, overwhelmed, can't get anything done.

I even, I even build up

unrational resentment towards the people, i.e.

you, that has created that mess.