Ryan Hanley

So when it hits you hard, right?

Something happens, you know, maybe, you know, God forbid something with your kids or, or work, you know, just something happens at work that just throws the whole ship into, into flux.

How do you not spin off the rails?

How do you come back in?

Everyone's going to have those moments, right?

Maybe it takes a day or two to get back on track.

But where I see the difference between highly successful individuals like yourself and those who do not reach goals or do not reach places that they maybe are proud of is that when the best get punched in the face, they're able to recalibrate themselves and get back on track.

And so many others are not.

How do you do that?

How do you get yourself back on track when you get knocked off course?

I think, one, I love that.

You know, a reframe that I use all the time is this isn't happening to me.

It's happening for me, right?

So when things happen,

that I didn't expect or aren't exactly what I want, right?

It's often, it's easy to go, why is this happening to me?

You know, I'm a good person.

I pay my taxes.

I, you know, love my kid.

Why is this happening to me?