Ryan Soave
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And I really like when we have people who say, I'm not going to do this, or I'm going to leave, you know, they're actually telling us something about themselves and where they are. And we can be there with them in that struggle.
And I really like when we have people who say, I'm not going to do this, or I'm going to leave, you know, they're actually telling us something about themselves and where they are. And we can be there with them in that struggle.
And I really like when we have people who say, I'm not going to do this, or I'm going to leave, you know, they're actually telling us something about themselves and where they are. And we can be there with them in that struggle.
You know, sometimes people come in and they're just like checking the boxes and they're going to be a good student and everything's fine because they're not drinking anymore. And then we're never able to really get to kind of the causes and conditions of it. You know, when they're in a treatment setting, we'll have them for anywhere from, you know, seven days to 90 days.
You know, sometimes people come in and they're just like checking the boxes and they're going to be a good student and everything's fine because they're not drinking anymore. And then we're never able to really get to kind of the causes and conditions of it. You know, when they're in a treatment setting, we'll have them for anywhere from, you know, seven days to 90 days.
You know, sometimes people come in and they're just like checking the boxes and they're going to be a good student and everything's fine because they're not drinking anymore. And then we're never able to really get to kind of the causes and conditions of it. You know, when they're in a treatment setting, we'll have them for anywhere from, you know, seven days to 90 days.
You know, we like to keep them, you know, and understand, you know, what's going on with them so we can meet them at their different stages and the environment. We kind of try to create a microcosm of their social universe so that, you know, they can experience some stressors while we're not creating the stressors, but we're having them communicate with their families. We're having them
You know, we like to keep them, you know, and understand, you know, what's going on with them so we can meet them at their different stages and the environment. We kind of try to create a microcosm of their social universe so that, you know, they can experience some stressors while we're not creating the stressors, but we're having them communicate with their families. We're having them
You know, we like to keep them, you know, and understand, you know, what's going on with them so we can meet them at their different stages and the environment. We kind of try to create a microcosm of their social universe so that, you know, they can experience some stressors while we're not creating the stressors, but we're having them communicate with their families. We're having them
face some of the things they don't want to face. And we have a saying that says, you know, treatment can't really begin until the crisis occurs. And what that means is more of the internal or existential crisis. If someone's coming in and going, well, I'm great. Everything's great.
face some of the things they don't want to face. And we have a saying that says, you know, treatment can't really begin until the crisis occurs. And what that means is more of the internal or existential crisis. If someone's coming in and going, well, I'm great. Everything's great.
face some of the things they don't want to face. And we have a saying that says, you know, treatment can't really begin until the crisis occurs. And what that means is more of the internal or existential crisis. If someone's coming in and going, well, I'm great. Everything's great.
You know, why were they, maybe things are feeling great right now, but why were they drinking or using in a way that was harming themselves, others, you know, ripping their lives apart? sometimes people will say addiction is a choice. I don't buy that all the time, but people will say that. And what I would say to that is,
You know, why were they, maybe things are feeling great right now, but why were they drinking or using in a way that was harming themselves, others, you know, ripping their lives apart? sometimes people will say addiction is a choice. I don't buy that all the time, but people will say that. And what I would say to that is,
You know, why were they, maybe things are feeling great right now, but why were they drinking or using in a way that was harming themselves, others, you know, ripping their lives apart? sometimes people will say addiction is a choice. I don't buy that all the time, but people will say that. And what I would say to that is,
even if it is a choice, even if people could wake up and say, I'm going to do this or I'm not, like, why would they continue to choose a life that they're hurting themselves and others? So while they're in treatment with us, you know, we want to start to really understand who they are, start to understand, you know, what is happening in their environment.
even if it is a choice, even if people could wake up and say, I'm going to do this or I'm not, like, why would they continue to choose a life that they're hurting themselves and others? So while they're in treatment with us, you know, we want to start to really understand who they are, start to understand, you know, what is happening in their environment.
even if it is a choice, even if people could wake up and say, I'm going to do this or I'm not, like, why would they continue to choose a life that they're hurting themselves and others? So while they're in treatment with us, you know, we want to start to really understand who they are, start to understand, you know, what is happening in their environment.
And then as they, you know, stabilize more physically, and then they stabilize emotionally, as we can start to raise their capacity to experience difficult emotions. I mean, I say this all the time to my clients, you know, what I really do with them is help them learn how to feel bad. You know, we don't put that on the website because no one's going to come to us to say, how can I feel really bad?
And then as they, you know, stabilize more physically, and then they stabilize emotionally, as we can start to raise their capacity to experience difficult emotions. I mean, I say this all the time to my clients, you know, what I really do with them is help them learn how to feel bad. You know, we don't put that on the website because no one's going to come to us to say, how can I feel really bad?