Ryan Soave
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I remember, and again, I don't know this study, but I remember somebody referencing many years ago when I was first getting in the field that porn addiction at the time specifically related to video pornography, which is what it all is now. it was having the same impact on the brain and young men as crack cocaine.
I remember, and again, I don't know this study, but I remember somebody referencing many years ago when I was first getting in the field that porn addiction at the time specifically related to video pornography, which is what it all is now. it was having the same impact on the brain and young men as crack cocaine.
I mean, it's extremely powerful, has a lot of other effects in that it sets up a very unrealistic idea and perspective of what sex and intimacy is. You know, it also, uh, can help, uh, or can lead to kind of setting their sexual template. You know, they can quickly escalate just like you would escalate and you kind of back to the, the, um,
I mean, it's extremely powerful, has a lot of other effects in that it sets up a very unrealistic idea and perspective of what sex and intimacy is. You know, it also, uh, can help, uh, or can lead to kind of setting their sexual template. You know, they can quickly escalate just like you would escalate and you kind of back to the, the, um,
I mean, it's extremely powerful, has a lot of other effects in that it sets up a very unrealistic idea and perspective of what sex and intimacy is. You know, it also, uh, can help, uh, or can lead to kind of setting their sexual template. You know, they can quickly escalate just like you would escalate and you kind of back to the, the, um,
hot fudge sundae where it doesn't work anymore from you know something that might seem like normal sex to violent sex to really out there things that um can bring a lot of shame that they're even watching and it can escalate quickly and then have an impact on their own lives and relationships because they're playing out those relationships or that amount of intimacy intimacy depending on what they're doing also if there's masturbation along with it in in
hot fudge sundae where it doesn't work anymore from you know something that might seem like normal sex to violent sex to really out there things that um can bring a lot of shame that they're even watching and it can escalate quickly and then have an impact on their own lives and relationships because they're playing out those relationships or that amount of intimacy intimacy depending on what they're doing also if there's masturbation along with it in in
hot fudge sundae where it doesn't work anymore from you know something that might seem like normal sex to violent sex to really out there things that um can bring a lot of shame that they're even watching and it can escalate quickly and then have an impact on their own lives and relationships because they're playing out those relationships or that amount of intimacy intimacy depending on what they're doing also if there's masturbation along with it in in
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Yeah. This was probably 10, 15 years ago. where we're treating a lot of soldiers that had come back from Afghanistan or Iraq. And this was like the first wars where they had access to the internet. And there's a lot of other things. So there was a lot of kind of combining of sex and violence, right? They're around a lot of violence and then they're watching sex.
Yeah. This was probably 10, 15 years ago. where we're treating a lot of soldiers that had come back from Afghanistan or Iraq. And this was like the first wars where they had access to the internet. And there's a lot of other things. So there was a lot of kind of combining of sex and violence, right? They're around a lot of violence and then they're watching sex.
Yeah. This was probably 10, 15 years ago. where we're treating a lot of soldiers that had come back from Afghanistan or Iraq. And this was like the first wars where they had access to the internet. And there's a lot of other things. So there was a lot of kind of combining of sex and violence, right? They're around a lot of violence and then they're watching sex.
And then that kind of sexual template would set around like an order for them to get pleasure out of sex. It would need to be aggressive or even, even violent or risk, very risky, you know? So there's all these things that kind of collapse and, together. There were other things going on.
And then that kind of sexual template would set around like an order for them to get pleasure out of sex. It would need to be aggressive or even, even violent or risk, very risky, you know? So there's all these things that kind of collapse and, together. There were other things going on.
And then that kind of sexual template would set around like an order for them to get pleasure out of sex. It would need to be aggressive or even, even violent or risk, very risky, you know? So there's all these things that kind of collapse and, together. There were other things going on.
It was like the first time that they had also really had access to video, video chats to be able to like be on a battlefield and then come back and be talking to their spouse about something that's going on with the kids. It was very confusing environment for those guys and men and women. You know, the, the porn addiction is a, is a tough one, you know, because it, It's everywhere.
It was like the first time that they had also really had access to video, video chats to be able to like be on a battlefield and then come back and be talking to their spouse about something that's going on with the kids. It was very confusing environment for those guys and men and women. You know, the, the porn addiction is a, is a tough one, you know, because it, It's everywhere.
It was like the first time that they had also really had access to video, video chats to be able to like be on a battlefield and then come back and be talking to their spouse about something that's going on with the kids. It was very confusing environment for those guys and men and women. You know, the, the porn addiction is a, is a tough one, you know, because it, It's everywhere.