Sabrina Zohar

I still had my anxiety. I was working through it. I was so much more secure, but we weren't texting a ton. And I asked him and I said, hey, you know, after maybe like a month, I said, you know, I'd really love more texting in between our dates to feel more connected when I'm not with you. And he wrote the most. And this goes back to like not being the nice guy.

I still had my anxiety. I was working through it. I was so much more secure, but we weren't texting a ton. And I asked him and I said, hey, you know, after maybe like a month, I said, you know, I'd really love more texting in between our dates to feel more connected when I'm not with you. And he wrote the most. And this goes back to like not being the nice guy.

I still had my anxiety. I was working through it. I was so much more secure, but we weren't texting a ton. And I asked him and I said, hey, you know, after maybe like a month, I said, you know, I'd really love more texting in between our dates to feel more connected when I'm not with you. And he wrote the most. And this goes back to like not being the nice guy.

He wrote back a text with the most beautiful boundary saying, hey. Great to hear from you. I want to just be clear. This is not a sign of my disinterest. I work in tech and I stare at computers for nine hours a day.

He wrote back a text with the most beautiful boundary saying, hey. Great to hear from you. I want to just be clear. This is not a sign of my disinterest. I work in tech and I stare at computers for nine hours a day.

He wrote back a text with the most beautiful boundary saying, hey. Great to hear from you. I want to just be clear. This is not a sign of my disinterest. I work in tech and I stare at computers for nine hours a day.

The last thing I want to do is get off my computer and now be on a mini computer, building a relationship with somebody when I have my dog and my friends in front of me that I'd like to be purposeful with. I would love to take you on a date this week and get to know you in person, but I completely respect it if that doesn't work for you.

The last thing I want to do is get off my computer and now be on a mini computer, building a relationship with somebody when I have my dog and my friends in front of me that I'd like to be purposeful with. I would love to take you on a date this week and get to know you in person, but I completely respect it if that doesn't work for you.

The last thing I want to do is get off my computer and now be on a mini computer, building a relationship with somebody when I have my dog and my friends in front of me that I'd like to be purposeful with. I would love to take you on a date this week and get to know you in person, but I completely respect it if that doesn't work for you.

and i was just like oh my god that's so hot and we and we caught we talked about it he said how about i call you and so or facetime you a couple of times a week instead of texting and like then as we started to date more like to this day he hates it and the what i see more often than not is this wild false sense of intimacy i feel a lot of men feel they have to text every morning good morning and they have to do stuff to keep the girl interested and it's like if

and i was just like oh my god that's so hot and we and we caught we talked about it he said how about i call you and so or facetime you a couple of times a week instead of texting and like then as we started to date more like to this day he hates it and the what i see more often than not is this wild false sense of intimacy i feel a lot of men feel they have to text every morning good morning and they have to do stuff to keep the girl interested and it's like if

and i was just like oh my god that's so hot and we and we caught we talked about it he said how about i call you and so or facetime you a couple of times a week instead of texting and like then as we started to date more like to this day he hates it and the what i see more often than not is this wild false sense of intimacy i feel a lot of men feel they have to text every morning good morning and they have to do stuff to keep the girl interested and it's like if

if you're going to date somebody who is so anxious that if you don't text them a good morning they're going to end it with you i would highly suggest you seek another partner because that's going to be the least of your problems if this person cannot regulate their nervous system for a couple of hours and sit in some discomfort that you have a job and a life and cannot respond to them immediately and this is the flip side if any of my guys are listening saying oh i do that to people then it's time to look at what does the texting signify

if you're going to date somebody who is so anxious that if you don't text them a good morning they're going to end it with you i would highly suggest you seek another partner because that's going to be the least of your problems if this person cannot regulate their nervous system for a couple of hours and sit in some discomfort that you have a job and a life and cannot respond to them immediately and this is the flip side if any of my guys are listening saying oh i do that to people then it's time to look at what does the texting signify

if you're going to date somebody who is so anxious that if you don't text them a good morning they're going to end it with you i would highly suggest you seek another partner because that's going to be the least of your problems if this person cannot regulate their nervous system for a couple of hours and sit in some discomfort that you have a job and a life and cannot respond to them immediately and this is the flip side if any of my guys are listening saying oh i do that to people then it's time to look at what does the texting signify

Is it your nervous system saying, well, if they text me, they like me, duh, right? No. Plenty of people could text 30 people in a day and have no intentions of building a relationship. My suggestion would be focus on what makes you feel good and how you can show up sustainably. Stop engaging in these constant text battles. Set some fucking boundaries. Hey, I'd love to get to know you in person.

Is it your nervous system saying, well, if they text me, they like me, duh, right? No. Plenty of people could text 30 people in a day and have no intentions of building a relationship. My suggestion would be focus on what makes you feel good and how you can show up sustainably. Stop engaging in these constant text battles. Set some fucking boundaries. Hey, I'd love to get to know you in person.

Is it your nervous system saying, well, if they text me, they like me, duh, right? No. Plenty of people could text 30 people in a day and have no intentions of building a relationship. My suggestion would be focus on what makes you feel good and how you can show up sustainably. Stop engaging in these constant text battles. Set some fucking boundaries. Hey, I'd love to get to know you in person.

I'm incredibly intentional about the way that I date, but I'm not trying to create a false sense of intimacy on the texting. Are you free this week? Let's have a FaceTime vibe check. Do what you can within your power to show up authentically, but then the rest is not up to you.

I'm incredibly intentional about the way that I date, but I'm not trying to create a false sense of intimacy on the texting. Are you free this week? Let's have a FaceTime vibe check. Do what you can within your power to show up authentically, but then the rest is not up to you.