Sabrina Zohar

I need to experience that.

Then when you experience it, your nervous system is like, oh, okay, that's corrective.

So not everything has to be this.

It can also be this.

That's how we have those experiences.

Now, for anyone listening going, I've never had that in romantic.

That's okay.

You can have it in friendships.

You could have it with a family member.

You could have it with a colleague.

I had a client who I just adore him.

And...

He was chasing this guy.

It was a gay relationship, so it was two men chasing him to the point where it was breaking my heart to watch it.

And I finally had to say, hey, we got to intervene here because this just isn't right for you anymore or healthy.

And I try to stay out of that, but sometimes you have to.

And we had a call and I said...

is there anybody in your life that makes you feel loved?

And he said, he started crying.

And he said, my colleagues, they wrote me a letter saying they've noticed that I've lost my spark because he's been so enthralled with this guy.