Sabrina Zohar

And they wrote to me saying, you don't have to do anything.

We love you for you.

And we just want to be here for you.

And I was trying to explain like that's a corrective experience.

Your nervous system is appreciated and people do love you for who you are.

It's just because it's not romantic.

Now, why do romantic hit the hardest?

They're the closest maybe to our caregivers.

So there is nothing that will hit you in that same way.

That's why we have to look and say, does the pinch match the ouch?

But corrective experiences will help you to understand if I accept this in my friendships, then I accept this in my relationships.

And I'm not going to make any concessions of either of those.

So what I've seen is an amalgamation of things and we'll get back to the healing thing you brought up was so important.

We'll get to it after.

Okay.

When you're dating with kids, what we have to remember is as a parent, right, that's the choice that you're making is to have these children.

I hope it's a choice.

I'm praying to everybody that it was a choice that we made and that that wasn't made for you.

But on the aggregate, right, we have to remember that children are our priority.

And so I hear from some people of like, well, you know, they like I had one client and she said, well, you know, the guy I was dating had to put his kid first and not me.