Sabrina Zohar
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Podcast Appearances
And all of a sudden, she stops and goes, what was his name?
And I said his name.
And she turned white.
And she started shaking.
And she's like, that's my narcissistic ex who literally ruined me.
And she was hyperventilating and I had to hold her and I was like, oh my God, I'm so sorry.
And she was like, he was abusive.
He was doing all of these things to me.
I finally got out.
You're so lucky you didn't go down that road.
And in the moment, she was right because I completely overlooked the fact that he lied to me a bunch of times.
He never took accountability.
He was constantly deflecting.
There was zero depth, right?
He didn't want to have the conversations.
Now, that's different than if he wanted to, he would.
That's not what I'm talking about.
He didn't have the capacity.
And so I think what we're looking for is when you're with somebody, I don't want you to focus on how do they feel about me.
I really don't care.