Sabrina Zohar

And so for some people, they'll go in 100% of, I feel really good now, I feel really good now, because they're not taking a minute to say, hey, is this actually what I want?

What does this person have?

Are there qualities?

For a lot of people, they might enter it in in excitement.

Look, they're there, I'm here, and we're excited, we're excited, we're excited.

And then the novelty wears off because the person is consistent, because they're not playing games, they're not being activated in the same way, and that's usually when you'll start to see the pull away.

For me, that's why I'm a big proponent of going slow.

Going slow isn't an excuse for bad behavior.

Going slow just means you're not expediting the stages of the relationship quicker than they need to be.

And so what that could even look like is saying, sorry, I have plans this week.

I can only see you once or twice because I'm maintaining my life.

You haven't earned a place in my life yet.

And I see that a lot of the times.

And I used to be her.

I would meet a guy.

I saw this terrible dating advice.

She said, always have your dates on Thursday because if it goes well, you can make plans for Saturday.

And I said, oh, absolutely not.

No, ma'am, because then I'm too accessible.

Then what I'm telling this person is I have nothing going on.