Sabrina Zohar

I don't think that a little kid has the comprehension to understand why is there 10 guys coming in every few months with my mom.

But we also have to remember that when you introduce your children to the person you're dating, they're now looking and going, so this is how I'm allowed to be treated.

Because if mom is yelled at and someone puts her down and screams at her in front of me, then that means that's okay.

That's what I'm allowed to do and that's how I'm allowed to be treated.

So we want to make sure anybody...

we're bringing in to our children's lives is somebody that is ready to be in our kid's life.

That's why I always say, when you're talking about dating with kids, be honest, right?

Don't pull this bullshit of saying, I'm not going to tell this person that I have kids for the first few months.

Like, I don't know why we would ever do that.

Be honest about the fact that you have children.

Be honest about the custody you have.

Be realistic about the time you have.

I work six days a week.

I have my kids four of those days.

Here is the time I have available.

Does that work for you?

Because I think what ends up happening, the reason most people get frustrated is they don't feel like they're given a choice.

And so give the other person the choice, right?

For you when you have your kids and you're telling the guy you date, hey, here's the schedule.

This is what it is.