Sabrina Zohar

Of course.

Who doesn't want to be wanted?

But here's my question.

Who do you want to be wanted by?

Them or you?

More often than not, when we're, I need them, I need them, your littles aren't scared that they're going to leave you.

Your littles are scared that you're going to leave them because that's what's always happened to them.

If growing up, even for me, my experience was my father was very abusive to us and he was not father of the year by any means.

And so for me, it was, please come back for me.

Please come back for me.

And I didn't realize that in my dating life, I was doing to her what my dad did to me.

I was doing to her and saying, you don't matter to me.

Get away.

You're too much.

So if I'm shaming and blaming myself, how am I going to grow?

If I show myself compassion, I can actually do that.

And I understand the need and desire to be wanted.

But if we, my mom again will say, if you got to love yourself more than the need to be loved by other people.

It's not that I can't love you if you don't love yourself.

That's a fallacy.