Sabrina Zohar

He's also allowed to make a choice if that works for him.

It's both people understanding that, especially if you have both children, if you both have kids.

Then it's about being open and honest that you're going to have to blend a family eventually and having those conversations with the kids when the time is ready.

But make sure that this is somebody you want to introduce to them first before you do that, because it causes more harm than good.

To this point that you made earlier about the like, don't sleep with someone for this.

It's like, I fucked my partner on the first date and here we are three and a half years later happily in a relationship.

There is no one size fits all.

Now, the only time I will say it's important to just look is if we see a pattern consistently, right?

Every single time you date somebody,

Then within the first date, you're future planning.

You're starting to think of the wedding.

You're getting so anxious you can't sit still.

That's when we might want to say, okay, then maybe we probably shouldn't date for a minute.

Let's come up with some own coping skills.

Let's become stronger within ourselves.

But to your point, there is no right or wrong.

Now, would I suggest meeting your kids on the first date?

No.

Right.

I would never, ever suggest on the first date being like, oh, come on over and meet the children.