Sabrina Zohar

I have plenty of people can love you if you don't love yourself.

But if I need you in my life versus want you in my life, it's going to be very dangerous.

And I found that out when my dog passed away.

I used to joke when he was alive, I'd be like, oh, he's never going to die.

Oh, he's never going to die.

And then he did.

And it happened within 10 days and it was the hardest thing I've ever experienced.

And I lost everything in that moment.

And that's when I realized I can't be so beholden to an external because I lost myself.

I was a shell of a human, but I started my career at that same time.

And I made that promise to myself, I will never.

And so even in my partnership now, I love my partner.

I think he is one of the most amazing people I've met.

But I also know that if today we decided it wasn't going to work, I'd move on with my life.

Not because I don't love him and not because I don't think that we could have a beautiful life together.

But I also know that my life goes on and I can't be holding on to somebody else hoping that they're going to validate and choose me for me to live that life.

His name was Clem.

I've got him.

He was my best friend and he was my object permanence.

He was with me for 10 years and he saw every heartbreak.