Sabrina Zohar

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2,255 appearances 4 recordings 4 series first heard Dec 2024 last heard 17 Apr

Sabrina Zohar’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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They learned young in childhood that love is not safe, that who they are is a problem.

That maybe they had a caregiver that had really big emotions and they had to be monitoring them so they learned this isn't safe.

Maybe they had an emotionally unavailable caregiver who put them down for having feelings so they learned to tuck them away.

So when we see the avoidant, it's low sense of others, high sense of self, hyper independent.

They see it as I'm losing myself.

I'm getting engulfed.

This feels overwhelming.

Now, no one's right or wrong, right?

Both attachment styles can be very detrimental when nobody is rectifying them and nobody is doing anything about it.

So it's not like one is better than the other.

Then we go into the disorganized, which they also call it fearful avoidant.

That is low sense of self and low sense of others.

So where we see that very prevalent in homes of abuse.

Your caregiver was your source of love and fear.

So you can imagine why abuse would be where that would be prevalent.

And so that's really where you see the push-pull.

They want love.

The minute they get it, they pull.

They want it, they go.

They pull in, out, in, out.

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