Sabrina Zohar

If your state is burnout and exhaustion and you are just completely done, then your story is going to be, there's no one for me.

I'm so tired.

I'm never going to meet anybody.

I want this to be done.

So what's your strategy going to be?

You're going to constantly go after the wrong people.

You'll hold on to people because you're scared to let them go.

And I think here's the thing.

What I've learned and why people are so tired of dating is because they haven't learned to grieve.

Because when you hold on to everything and you haven't learned how to grieve the ending of things, it's going to be very difficult for you to move on and go to the next and go to the next.

Because the reality is, my partner always says, think of the stupidest person you know and remember that the population is about 49% stupider.

Right?

Like, there are a lot of duds.

There's amazing people out there.

But that's what dating is.

And dating is that you go out and you see not just are you choosing me, but do I choose you?

Do you work with my life?

But I can't do that unless I learn to grieve.

And so I think a lot of the fatigue we need to look at and say, where is that coming from?

And then ask, what are my choices?