Sabrina Zohar

But oftentimes we go on a first date and say, Prince Charming.

And the thing is, Disney lied to us because Disney told us what happened happily ever after.

They didn't tell us, did Prince Eric have a drinking problem, right?

Like, did Belle not get out of the house again?

Was she dealing with that?

We don't know what comes after it.

We just see happily ever after.

And so what we're really looking for is, what does that look like to you?

And I think for me, I was so focused on, but if you like me, I like me.

Instead of saying, no, I actually don't enjoy that.

And holding the space to say, I don't like that.

And if you don't either, that's okay.

But I think the solid foundation comes when you can have a space where you can trust.

And that includes hard conversations.

Because I think a lot of people, and I'm sure I'm curious if you hear this as well.

I hear it every day of, I don't want to be too much.

I don't want to push them away.

If I ask that, they're going to think I'm too much.

Then good, go find less.

If you think I'm too much, I'd encourage you to go find less because that doesn't make me too much.