Sabrina Zohar
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Podcast Appearances
I want to see, are you rigid?
Are you flexible?
Right?
We want to start to understand that.
What happens when I say no?
What happens when I set a boundary?
How do they treat waiters?
I want to see somebody when they're dysregulated because then I want to see, did you just yell at that person because he didn't get your car at the time that you wanted?
No, thank you.
I have no interest in this.
And so what we're trying to look and see is that, first of all, is like, does this person treat other people well?
Is it somewhere where I can feel comfortable?
Are they using I statements?
Or are they saying, you never call me, you never do this?
Okay, so we're using all and never.
Those are not really fair terms.
But I think when we're talking about a solid foundation, that's where going slow comes into play.
Because what we're doing is we're saying every single time I see you, it's first date, just to see if I want to have a second.
Second date.
just to see if I want to have a third.