Sabrina Zohar

Why are these girls not wanting to meet me?

I said, can I see the match?

Like, can I see the conversations?

Hey, you look pretty.

And then one girl even said, but your profile was so deep.

What is this?

And I was like, you can't pretend for, how long are you going to pretend for?

That's going to be really exhausting.

That's going to lead you to burnout versus you're right.

People aren't going to like me.

And that's okay.

Cause I have to be, my mama has always said, you can please some of the people all the time, but you can't please all the people all the time.

And you've got to be okay to disappoint people with who you are.

For me, my number one non-negotiable was you have to be done with your ex.

Like, I am so tired of hearing, oh, my ex wants to get back together.

I'm not over my ex.

It's like, then please don't get back into the dating world if you don't feel like you can be present with somebody else.

It's okay that you might still be hurting, but then please don't go back out there.

I think for me, I want to see, are you growth-minded?

My partner always asked questions, and the one question he asked was, what is something you changed your mind about recently and what prompted the change?