Sabrina Zohar

And so I think if we're going to get back into real life, which I'm so down, right?

I'm not saying everything has to be on dating apps.

Then I think we also need to be okay with it not working, with having to put ourselves out there, with putting ourselves into environments, right?

Like I don't drink alcohol.

I'm not going to go to a bar to meet somebody, right?

Like that's probably not where I'll be going to match with someone.

But I think we have to be okay with disappointment.

And I think that to me has been the lost art of where dating is going is because we're getting more and more into this, I'd rather just be single.

And to me, I hear that as more being avoidant than anything else, because you're going to be rejected.

You're going to have people not work out.

But it's not about the ones that don't.

It's about finding one person that does.

I want to even say how normal and human that is, right?

That we are going to be regulated and dysregulated.

We'll have peaks and valleys and we'll have moments where you're crying on the floor because you can't do this anymore.

But then you wipe away the tears, you get up and you say, yes, I can.

And like, I know for me, I have ADHD.

My speech is a lot faster than the average person.

My brain processes differently.

So I could look at things in a very different way.