Sabrina Zohar
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If you're super avoidant, you might be just no emotion, everything is factual, but that doesn't translate into our relationships because we do need to hold space for emotions. So oftentimes, a lot of business owners can be more avoidant-leaning because they learn, let me just dump everything into my business. I don't need to worry about the rest.
If you're super avoidant, you might be just no emotion, everything is factual, but that doesn't translate into our relationships because we do need to hold space for emotions. So oftentimes, a lot of business owners can be more avoidant-leaning because they learn, let me just dump everything into my business. I don't need to worry about the rest.
The avoidant is not a bad person. That just means when triggered, this person learns to shut down. So the anxious goes outwards. I need the validation. The avoidant looks at this as, I just need to protect myself. Feelings aren't safe. I don't want to deal with this. Too much overload, shut down. So they go inward. And so we see that a lot, especially with high-powered CEOs.
The avoidant is not a bad person. That just means when triggered, this person learns to shut down. So the anxious goes outwards. I need the validation. The avoidant looks at this as, I just need to protect myself. Feelings aren't safe. I don't want to deal with this. Too much overload, shut down. So they go inward. And so we see that a lot, especially with high-powered CEOs.
The avoidant is not a bad person. That just means when triggered, this person learns to shut down. So the anxious goes outwards. I need the validation. The avoidant looks at this as, I just need to protect myself. Feelings aren't safe. I don't want to deal with this. Too much overload, shut down. So they go inward. And so we see that a lot, especially with high-powered CEOs.
The avoidant is not a bad person. That just means when triggered, this person learns to shut down. So the anxious goes outwards. I need the validation. The avoidant looks at this as, I just need to protect myself. Feelings aren't safe. I don't want to deal with this. Too much overload, shut down. So they go inward. And so we see that a lot, especially with high-powered CEOs.
The avoidant is not a bad person. That just means when triggered, this person learns to shut down. So the anxious goes outwards. I need the validation. The avoidant looks at this as, I just need to protect myself. Feelings aren't safe. I don't want to deal with this. Too much overload, shut down. So they go inward. And so we see that a lot, especially with high-powered CEOs.
Then we have that disorganized attachment, which is the amalgamation, if you will. But it's really that push-pull. I want love. So they have that anxiety of I need it, I need it. But then when they get it, it's no, no, no, I'm scared of it. And they run. So that's where you'll see that push-pull where you almost feel like you're going crazy. That's this disorganized attachment.
Then we have that disorganized attachment, which is the amalgamation, if you will. But it's really that push-pull. I want love. So they have that anxiety of I need it, I need it. But then when they get it, it's no, no, no, I'm scared of it. And they run. So that's where you'll see that push-pull where you almost feel like you're going crazy. That's this disorganized attachment.
Then we have that disorganized attachment, which is the amalgamation, if you will. But it's really that push-pull. I want love. So they have that anxiety of I need it, I need it. But then when they get it, it's no, no, no, I'm scared of it. And they run. So that's where you'll see that push-pull where you almost feel like you're going crazy. That's this disorganized attachment.
Then we have that disorganized attachment, which is the amalgamation, if you will. But it's really that push-pull. I want love. So they have that anxiety of I need it, I need it. But then when they get it, it's no, no, no, I'm scared of it. And they run. So that's where you'll see that push-pull where you almost feel like you're going crazy. That's this disorganized attachment.
Then we have that disorganized attachment, which is the amalgamation, if you will. But it's really that push-pull. I want love. So they have that anxiety of I need it, I need it. But then when they get it, it's no, no, no, I'm scared of it. And they run. So that's where you'll see that push-pull where you almost feel like you're going crazy. That's this disorganized attachment.
If you're super avoidant, you might be just no emotion, everything is factual, but that doesn't translate into our relationships because we do need to hold space for emotions. So oftentimes, a lot of business owners can be more avoidant-leaning because they learn, let me just dump everything into my business. I don't need to worry about the rest.
If you're super avoidant, you might be just no emotion, everything is factual, but that doesn't translate into our relationships because we do need to hold space for emotions. So oftentimes, a lot of business owners can be more avoidant-leaning because they learn, let me just dump everything into my business. I don't need to worry about the rest.
If you're super avoidant, you might be just no emotion, everything is factual, but that doesn't translate into our relationships because we do need to hold space for emotions. So oftentimes, a lot of business owners can be more avoidant-leaning because they learn, let me just dump everything into my business. I don't need to worry about the rest.
If you're super avoidant, you might be just no emotion, everything is factual, but that doesn't translate into our relationships because we do need to hold space for emotions. So oftentimes, a lot of business owners can be more avoidant-leaning because they learn, let me just dump everything into my business. I don't need to worry about the rest.
If you're super avoidant, you might be just no emotion, everything is factual, but that doesn't translate into our relationships because we do need to hold space for emotions. So oftentimes, a lot of business owners can be more avoidant-leaning because they learn, let me just dump everything into my business. I don't need to worry about the rest.
Those are really prevalent in homes of abuse, right? You love your caregiver, but you're scared of them at the same time. So it creates that amalgamation. The reason I bring that up is just to say I was the poster child for anxiety, right? I was constantly seeking external validation, inclusive of my business, right? Trying to present myself.
Those are really prevalent in homes of abuse, right? You love your caregiver, but you're scared of them at the same time. So it creates that amalgamation. The reason I bring that up is just to say I was the poster child for anxiety, right? I was constantly seeking external validation, inclusive of my business, right? Trying to present myself.
Those are really prevalent in homes of abuse, right? You love your caregiver, but you're scared of them at the same time. So it creates that amalgamation. The reason I bring that up is just to say I was the poster child for anxiety, right? I was constantly seeking external validation, inclusive of my business, right? Trying to present myself.