Sabrina Zohar
đ€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Now, a lot of people would look and say, well, if you wanted to, you would.
He must just not want her bad enough.
But what we have to look at is capacity.
Because in our brain, want and do are two different parts of our brain.
So I can want a lot of things.
I want to be a millionaire.
I'm not.
Is that because I don't want it bad enough?
No.
There's other things along the way.
But somebody that's emotionally unavailable, what we have to look and say is it doesn't mean they're a bad person.
But what that means is that they can only meet you as deeply as they've met themselves.
And if that person...
is saying, emotions are scary.
I don't want to be vulnerable.
That makes me uncomfortable.
Then how do you think they're going to hold your space?
How do you think they're going to be able to show up?
Because a lot of people look and say, oh, come on, it's just a relationship.
Why won't you commit to me?