Sabrina Zohar

This person is going to call you.

They're going to have conversations.

If you come to them with something, they work with you through it because it's not about, like, I'm not a fan of the don't go to bed angry.

Go to bed angry with a plan to talk in the morning because we need to have the rupture but regulate to have the repair.

And I find that with the emotionally unavailable and then with the other dynamic because if you're secure, you don't entertain emotionally unavailable because you know you deserve more.

And if you don't demand it, who's going to?

versus if you're insecure and you're like, this is all I can get.

There's nothing else.

And you're convincing yourself and you're translating crumbs into a meal when you deserve the entire loaf, not just a morsel of what they're giving.

And like you said, you can't love someone into changing.

And that's the reality.

Love isn't enough.

I wish, oh boy, I wish all we had to do was just love somebody.

But if that were the case, my mother would have changed my father.

She did everything.

She literally would have morphed herself into a pretzel.

And he still said, you're not baked enough for me.

Because when someone just doesn't have that, nothing I do will change that except walking away because that's for me.

And I'm not a fan of walk away no matter what.

I think we're in a time where everything is, I don't like this, so leave.