Sabrina Zohar

If someone treats you poorly, it's not about, oh, there's something wrong with me, but it's about saying, but what did I allow?

Because you start to look, I want you to look at anybody that's listening, look at your friends, look at your family, look at your partners, look at everyone in your life.

And if you don't like any of them,

That starts and stops with you because you're allowing them in your life.

They didn't force their way in there.

And now you get to choose who stays.

The thing about romantic fiction, I would say, more than any other genre of culture, is that it's always put women first.

My marriage stopped making sense.

The connection started to feel off.

I don't.

I think what makes someone right is that they're in your life at the right time.

Because for me, I believe that there are people in your life that maybe you met them at a time that didn't work for you.

But I don't believe in holding on to people just because of timing.

Now, I think timing is incredibly important.

I think timing and proximity mean way more than love.

Because if I'm not at the right place at the right time, it's going to be hard.

But I don't believe in holding on to people.

If they're right for you, they'll come back organically and naturally, but you don't need to hold on to it.

And I think when we say that, we grip on and say, but that's the person for me.

And then you miss out on all the doors that are opening because you're staring at the window that's closed.