Sabrina Zohar

And it's not fair to people. So I'll even back up. There's a book called Attached. That's what started a lot of this. Attached was written by Amir Levine. And this was written, I believe, 2007. So it's a minute ago. And it's like the number one book in this field. And Amir Levine has come out now recently saying, I was way too hard on the avoidant in the book.

And it's not fair to people. So I'll even back up. There's a book called Attached. That's what started a lot of this. Attached was written by Amir Levine. And this was written, I believe, 2007. So it's a minute ago. And it's like the number one book in this field. And Amir Levine has come out now recently saying, I was way too hard on the avoidant in the book.

There's a difference between avoidant personality disorder, somebody who just avoids everything because everything makes them uncomfortable, versus an attachment style where here's the thing, you have to be attached for that to come out. So I might not be anxious with someone if I'm not that into them because I'm not feeling that childhood core wound being activated.

There's a difference between avoidant personality disorder, somebody who just avoids everything because everything makes them uncomfortable, versus an attachment style where here's the thing, you have to be attached for that to come out. So I might not be anxious with someone if I'm not that into them because I'm not feeling that childhood core wound being activated.

There's a difference between avoidant personality disorder, somebody who just avoids everything because everything makes them uncomfortable, versus an attachment style where here's the thing, you have to be attached for that to come out. So I might not be anxious with someone if I'm not that into them because I'm not feeling that childhood core wound being activated.

There's a difference between avoidant personality disorder, somebody who just avoids everything because everything makes them uncomfortable, versus an attachment style where here's the thing, you have to be attached for that to come out. So I might not be anxious with someone if I'm not that into them because I'm not feeling that childhood core wound being activated.

There's a difference between avoidant personality disorder, somebody who just avoids everything because everything makes them uncomfortable, versus an attachment style where here's the thing, you have to be attached for that to come out. So I might not be anxious with someone if I'm not that into them because I'm not feeling that childhood core wound being activated.

I didn't understand them enough, and I really villainized them because he made them come off as these cold, calloused, we don't care about anything. We just shut down and remove ourselves. But that's not actually how avoidants work.

I didn't understand them enough, and I really villainized them because he made them come off as these cold, calloused, we don't care about anything. We just shut down and remove ourselves. But that's not actually how avoidants work.

I didn't understand them enough, and I really villainized them because he made them come off as these cold, calloused, we don't care about anything. We just shut down and remove ourselves. But that's not actually how avoidants work.

I didn't understand them enough, and I really villainized them because he made them come off as these cold, calloused, we don't care about anything. We just shut down and remove ourselves. But that's not actually how avoidants work.

I didn't understand them enough, and I really villainized them because he made them come off as these cold, calloused, we don't care about anything. We just shut down and remove ourselves. But that's not actually how avoidants work.

So it's not fair for me to say I'm anxious. No, I have anxious tendencies and I run a little bit more anxious than the average person. That allows me space to grow into a different version of myself.

So it's not fair for me to say I'm anxious. No, I have anxious tendencies and I run a little bit more anxious than the average person. That allows me space to grow into a different version of myself.

So it's not fair for me to say I'm anxious. No, I have anxious tendencies and I run a little bit more anxious than the average person. That allows me space to grow into a different version of myself.

So it's not fair for me to say I'm anxious. No, I have anxious tendencies and I run a little bit more anxious than the average person. That allows me space to grow into a different version of myself.

So it's not fair for me to say I'm anxious. No, I have anxious tendencies and I run a little bit more anxious than the average person. That allows me space to grow into a different version of myself.

There's a difference between avoidant personality disorder, somebody who just avoids everything because everything makes them uncomfortable, versus an attachment style. Here's the thing, you have to be attached for that to come out. So I might not be anxious with someone if I'm not that into them because I'm not feeling that childhood core wound being activated.

There's a difference between avoidant personality disorder, somebody who just avoids everything because everything makes them uncomfortable, versus an attachment style. Here's the thing, you have to be attached for that to come out. So I might not be anxious with someone if I'm not that into them because I'm not feeling that childhood core wound being activated.

There's a difference between avoidant personality disorder, somebody who just avoids everything because everything makes them uncomfortable, versus an attachment style. Here's the thing, you have to be attached for that to come out. So I might not be anxious with someone if I'm not that into them because I'm not feeling that childhood core wound being activated.