Sabrina Zohar
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It really did shoot him in the foot. right? Because he could have more avoidant tendencies, but maybe that doesn't come out with you, right? Maybe you're significantly more secure for him and it doesn't trigger him. The problem with setting the stage is that it doesn't allow growth.
It really did shoot him in the foot. right? Because he could have more avoidant tendencies, but maybe that doesn't come out with you, right? Maybe you're significantly more secure for him and it doesn't trigger him. The problem with setting the stage is that it doesn't allow growth.
And it's not fair to people. So I'll even back up. There's a book called Attached. That's what started a lot of this. Attached was written by Amir Levine. And this was written, I believe, 2007. So it's a minute ago. And it's like the number one book in this field. And Amir Levine has come out now recently saying, I was way too hard on the avoidant in the book.
And it's not fair to people. So I'll even back up. There's a book called Attached. That's what started a lot of this. Attached was written by Amir Levine. And this was written, I believe, 2007. So it's a minute ago. And it's like the number one book in this field. And Amir Levine has come out now recently saying, I was way too hard on the avoidant in the book.
And it's not fair to people. So I'll even back up. There's a book called Attached. That's what started a lot of this. Attached was written by Amir Levine. And this was written, I believe, 2007. So it's a minute ago. And it's like the number one book in this field. And Amir Levine has come out now recently saying, I was way too hard on the avoidant in the book.
And it's not fair to people. So I'll even back up. There's a book called Attached. That's what started a lot of this. Attached was written by Amir Levine. And this was written, I believe, 2007. So it's a minute ago. And it's like the number one book in this field. And Amir Levine has come out now recently saying, I was way too hard on the avoidant in the book.
And it's not fair to people. So I'll even back up. There's a book called Attached. That's what started a lot of this. Attached was written by Amir Levine. And this was written, I believe, 2007. So it's a minute ago. And it's like the number one book in this field. And Amir Levine has come out now recently saying, I was way too hard on the avoidant in the book.
It doesn't allow you to change and evolve because the other reality is I might be super anxious with one person, but then I meet somebody else and I'm not as triggered by that person, so I'm less anxious with them because it's a spectrum. And I think that's the misconception is we villainized avoidance, right? I mean, you know as well as I do the content we see on the internet.
It doesn't allow you to change and evolve because the other reality is I might be super anxious with one person, but then I meet somebody else and I'm not as triggered by that person, so I'm less anxious with them because it's a spectrum. And I think that's the misconception is we villainized avoidance, right? I mean, you know as well as I do the content we see on the internet.
It doesn't allow you to change and evolve because the other reality is I might be super anxious with one person, but then I meet somebody else and I'm not as triggered by that person, so I'm less anxious with them because it's a spectrum. And I think that's the misconception is we villainized avoidance, right? I mean, you know as well as I do the content we see on the internet.
It doesn't allow you to change and evolve because the other reality is I might be super anxious with one person, but then I meet somebody else and I'm not as triggered by that person, so I'm less anxious with them because it's a spectrum. And I think that's the misconception is we villainized avoidance, right? I mean, you know as well as I do the content we see on the internet.
It doesn't allow you to change and evolve because the other reality is I might be super anxious with one person, but then I meet somebody else and I'm not as triggered by that person, so I'm less anxious with them because it's a spectrum. And I think that's the misconception is we villainized avoidance, right? I mean, you know as well as I do the content we see on the internet.
I didn't understand them enough, and I really villainized them because he made them come off as these cold, calloused, we don't care about anything. We just shut down and remove ourselves. But that's not actually how avoidants work, right?
I didn't understand them enough, and I really villainized them because he made them come off as these cold, calloused, we don't care about anything. We just shut down and remove ourselves. But that's not actually how avoidants work, right?
I didn't understand them enough, and I really villainized them because he made them come off as these cold, calloused, we don't care about anything. We just shut down and remove ourselves. But that's not actually how avoidants work, right?
I didn't understand them enough, and I really villainized them because he made them come off as these cold, calloused, we don't care about anything. We just shut down and remove ourselves. But that's not actually how avoidants work, right?
I didn't understand them enough, and I really villainized them because he made them come off as these cold, calloused, we don't care about anything. We just shut down and remove ourselves. But that's not actually how avoidants work, right?
And it's not fair to people. So I'll even back up. There's a book called Attached. That's what started a lot of this. Attached was written by Amir Levine. And this was written, I believe, 2007. So it's a minute ago. And it's like the number one book in this field. And Amir Levine has come out now recently saying, I was way too hard on the avoidant in the book.
And it's not fair to people. So I'll even back up. There's a book called Attached. That's what started a lot of this. Attached was written by Amir Levine. And this was written, I believe, 2007. So it's a minute ago. And it's like the number one book in this field. And Amir Levine has come out now recently saying, I was way too hard on the avoidant in the book.
And it's not fair to people. So I'll even back up. There's a book called Attached. That's what started a lot of this. Attached was written by Amir Levine. And this was written, I believe, 2007. So it's a minute ago. And it's like the number one book in this field. And Amir Levine has come out now recently saying, I was way too hard on the avoidant in the book.