Sabrina Zohar
đ€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
So then we're not actually present.
We're not in this present moment.
We're not coming from the adult.
We're coming from the little wounded kid that just needs to be seen, heard, loved, and understood.
Then what I would say is I start to look and say,
What are my choices?
If you can't access your choice, then that means we need to regulate.
And so this is something that actually blew my mind.
My friend's a brilliant neuroscientist.
His name is Dr. Chris Lee.
And he taught me, your state determines your story, determines your strategy.
So the state being, what is your nervous system state?
Are you regulated?
Meaning I can access my prefrontal cortex.
I can access choice.
Right now I feel safe.
Both of us are here.
But if somebody came in with a knife, we would get dysregulated.
You might bolt.
I might freeze, right?