Sabrina Zohar

So when we look at attachment cells, because I think that's a great question, right? It's, we've seen, oh, if you're anxious, at least you're expressing yourself. And it's like, no, you're not. You're just talking. Talking doesn't mean communicating, right? There's two very different things. And same with the avoidant. Well, he just pulls away. Maybe that person needs to process, right?

So when we look at attachment cells, because I think that's a great question, right? It's, we've seen, oh, if you're anxious, at least you're expressing yourself. And it's like, no, you're not. You're just talking. Talking doesn't mean communicating, right? There's two very different things. And same with the avoidant. Well, he just pulls away. Maybe that person needs to process, right?

So for me, I have that high anxiety because I came in a household, I had a narcissistic father constantly dismissed us, no boundaries. We would get hit a lot. He was very abusive, very verbally abusive, leaving all the time. And then my mother, instead of attuning to our needs, if my father hit us and we're crying, she would walk out of the room. So as a child, I learned no one's safe.

So for me, I have that high anxiety because I came in a household, I had a narcissistic father constantly dismissed us, no boundaries. We would get hit a lot. He was very abusive, very verbally abusive, leaving all the time. And then my mother, instead of attuning to our needs, if my father hit us and we're crying, she would walk out of the room. So as a child, I learned no one's safe.

So for me, I have that high anxiety because I came in a household, I had a narcissistic father constantly dismissed us, no boundaries. We would get hit a lot. He was very abusive, very verbally abusive, leaving all the time. And then my mother, instead of attuning to our needs, if my father hit us and we're crying, she would walk out of the room. So as a child, I learned no one's safe.

So for me, I have that high anxiety because I came in a household, I had a narcissistic father constantly dismissed us, no boundaries. We would get hit a lot. He was very abusive, very verbally abusive, leaving all the time. And then my mother, instead of attuning to our needs, if my father hit us and we're crying, she would walk out of the room. So as a child, I learned no one's safe.

So for me, I have that high anxiety because I came in a household, I had a narcissistic father constantly dismissed us, no boundaries. We would get hit a lot. He was very abusive, very verbally abusive, leaving all the time. And then my mother, instead of attuning to our needs, if my father hit us and we're crying, she would walk out of the room. So as a child, I learned no one's safe.

There are pros and cons to the behavior, depending how we look on it. The reality is our attachment styles are not something that we asked for. So attachment styles form in the zero to six age of our lives. So attachment styles are formed very early childhood, dependent on how your caregivers attune to your needs.

There are pros and cons to the behavior, depending how we look on it. The reality is our attachment styles are not something that we asked for. So attachment styles form in the zero to six age of our lives. So attachment styles are formed very early childhood, dependent on how your caregivers attune to your needs.

There are pros and cons to the behavior, depending how we look on it. The reality is our attachment styles are not something that we asked for. So attachment styles form in the zero to six age of our lives. So attachment styles are formed very early childhood, dependent on how your caregivers attune to your needs.

There are pros and cons to the behavior, depending how we look on it. The reality is our attachment styles are not something that we asked for. So attachment styles form in the zero to six age of our lives. So attachment styles are formed very early childhood, dependent on how your caregivers attune to your needs.

There are pros and cons to the behavior, depending how we look on it. The reality is our attachment styles are not something that we asked for. So attachment styles form in the zero to six age of our lives. So attachment styles are formed very early childhood, dependent on how your caregivers attune to your needs.

I have no one I can rely on. There's no object permanence. So that's what bred this, give me the validation. Please, please, I need it. I need it. That doesn't mean that I'm a bad person in my adult life. And on the flip side, my partner, his father was very abusive growing up, and he learned emotions are not safe, so he learned to shut them down.

I have no one I can rely on. There's no object permanence. So that's what bred this, give me the validation. Please, please, I need it. I need it. That doesn't mean that I'm a bad person in my adult life. And on the flip side, my partner, his father was very abusive growing up, and he learned emotions are not safe, so he learned to shut them down.

I have no one I can rely on. There's no object permanence. So that's what bred this, give me the validation. Please, please, I need it. I need it. That doesn't mean that I'm a bad person in my adult life. And on the flip side, my partner, his father was very abusive growing up, and he learned emotions are not safe, so he learned to shut them down.

I have no one I can rely on. There's no object permanence. So that's what bred this, give me the validation. Please, please, I need it. I need it. That doesn't mean that I'm a bad person in my adult life. And on the flip side, my partner, his father was very abusive growing up, and he learned emotions are not safe, so he learned to shut them down.

I have no one I can rely on. There's no object permanence. So that's what bred this, give me the validation. Please, please, I need it. I need it. That doesn't mean that I'm a bad person in my adult life. And on the flip side, my partner, his father was very abusive growing up, and he learned emotions are not safe, so he learned to shut them down.

So for me, I have that high anxiety because I came in a household, I had a narcissistic father constantly dismissed us, no boundaries. We would get hit a lot. He was very abusive, very verbally abusive, leaving all the time. And then my mother, instead of attuning to our needs, if my father hit us and we're crying, she would walk out of the room. So as a child, I learned no one's safe.

So for me, I have that high anxiety because I came in a household, I had a narcissistic father constantly dismissed us, no boundaries. We would get hit a lot. He was very abusive, very verbally abusive, leaving all the time. And then my mother, instead of attuning to our needs, if my father hit us and we're crying, she would walk out of the room. So as a child, I learned no one's safe.

So for me, I have that high anxiety because I came in a household, I had a narcissistic father constantly dismissed us, no boundaries. We would get hit a lot. He was very abusive, very verbally abusive, leaving all the time. And then my mother, instead of attuning to our needs, if my father hit us and we're crying, she would walk out of the room. So as a child, I learned no one's safe.