Sabrina Zohar

So for me, I have that high anxiety because I came in a household, I had a narcissistic father constantly dismissed us, no boundaries. We would get hit a lot. He was very abusive, very verbally abusive, leaving all the time. And then my mother, instead of attuning to our needs, if my father hit us and we're crying, she would walk out of the room. So as a child, I learned no one's safe.

So for me, I have that high anxiety because I came in a household, I had a narcissistic father constantly dismissed us, no boundaries. We would get hit a lot. He was very abusive, very verbally abusive, leaving all the time. And then my mother, instead of attuning to our needs, if my father hit us and we're crying, she would walk out of the room. So as a child, I learned no one's safe.

Just shut up, don't say anything, and you won't get hurt. So as an adult, he really struggles to express himself because he never had a safe space to do so. When we look at people that are secure, people that are secure still feel anxiety. They still have avoidant tendencies. They can still get overwhelmed and remove themselves.

Just shut up, don't say anything, and you won't get hurt. So as an adult, he really struggles to express himself because he never had a safe space to do so. When we look at people that are secure, people that are secure still feel anxiety. They still have avoidant tendencies. They can still get overwhelmed and remove themselves.

Just shut up, don't say anything, and you won't get hurt. So as an adult, he really struggles to express himself because he never had a safe space to do so. When we look at people that are secure, people that are secure still feel anxiety. They still have avoidant tendencies. They can still get overwhelmed and remove themselves.

Just shut up, don't say anything, and you won't get hurt. So as an adult, he really struggles to express himself because he never had a safe space to do so. When we look at people that are secure, people that are secure still feel anxiety. They still have avoidant tendencies. They can still get overwhelmed and remove themselves.

Just shut up, don't say anything, and you won't get hurt. So as an adult, he really struggles to express himself because he never had a safe space to do so. When we look at people that are secure, people that are secure still feel anxiety. They still have avoidant tendencies. They can still get overwhelmed and remove themselves.

I have no one I can rely on. There's no object permanence. So that's what bred this, give me the validation. Please, please, I need it. I need it. That doesn't mean that I'm a bad person in my adult life. And on the flip side, my partner, his father was very abusive growing up, and he learned emotions are not safe, so he learned to shut them down.

I have no one I can rely on. There's no object permanence. So that's what bred this, give me the validation. Please, please, I need it. I need it. That doesn't mean that I'm a bad person in my adult life. And on the flip side, my partner, his father was very abusive growing up, and he learned emotions are not safe, so he learned to shut them down.

I have no one I can rely on. There's no object permanence. So that's what bred this, give me the validation. Please, please, I need it. I need it. That doesn't mean that I'm a bad person in my adult life. And on the flip side, my partner, his father was very abusive growing up, and he learned emotions are not safe, so he learned to shut them down.

I have no one I can rely on. There's no object permanence. So that's what bred this, give me the validation. Please, please, I need it. I need it. That doesn't mean that I'm a bad person in my adult life. And on the flip side, my partner, his father was very abusive growing up, and he learned emotions are not safe, so he learned to shut them down.

I have no one I can rely on. There's no object permanence. So that's what bred this, give me the validation. Please, please, I need it. I need it. That doesn't mean that I'm a bad person in my adult life. And on the flip side, my partner, his father was very abusive growing up, and he learned emotions are not safe, so he learned to shut them down.

The difference is people that are secure understand that part of being in a relationship is co-creating. I need to be vulnerable and hold space for you and vice versa. So the reality is I have gotten to earn secure. We can get to an earn secure space.

The difference is people that are secure understand that part of being in a relationship is co-creating. I need to be vulnerable and hold space for you and vice versa. So the reality is I have gotten to earn secure. We can get to an earn secure space.

The difference is people that are secure understand that part of being in a relationship is co-creating. I need to be vulnerable and hold space for you and vice versa. So the reality is I have gotten to earn secure. We can get to an earn secure space.

The difference is people that are secure understand that part of being in a relationship is co-creating. I need to be vulnerable and hold space for you and vice versa. So the reality is I have gotten to earn secure. We can get to an earn secure space.

The difference is people that are secure understand that part of being in a relationship is co-creating. I need to be vulnerable and hold space for you and vice versa. So the reality is I have gotten to earn secure. We can get to an earn secure space.

Just shut up, don't say anything, and you won't get hurt. So as an adult, he really struggles to express himself because he never had a safe space to do so. When we look at people that are secure, people that are secure still feel anxiety. They still have avoidant tendencies. They can still get overwhelmed and remove themselves.

Just shut up, don't say anything, and you won't get hurt. So as an adult, he really struggles to express himself because he never had a safe space to do so. When we look at people that are secure, people that are secure still feel anxiety. They still have avoidant tendencies. They can still get overwhelmed and remove themselves.

Just shut up, don't say anything, and you won't get hurt. So as an adult, he really struggles to express himself because he never had a safe space to do so. When we look at people that are secure, people that are secure still feel anxiety. They still have avoidant tendencies. They can still get overwhelmed and remove themselves.