Sabrina Zohar

If they do this, it's good.

If they do this, it's bad.

And what we're trying to do is understand the gray.

I think if you're getting anxious because somebody hasn't texted you back, we need to look at the state and the story that you're in as opposed to that they're the problem.

Because how else are they showing up?

that might be a sign that you're not giving them space to step in.

I've seen that often.

Now, if you give the space and you don't hear from this person, you have your answer right there.

You were carrying this along.

But oftentimes, I've had plenty of men contact me and say, this girl texts me every single morning.

I don't even get a chance to reach out to her.

Distance creates desire.

It's okay to let that go for a day.

And if you can't sit still, that's what we need to work on, not the texting etiquette.

To a certain extent.

I think if we see where it starts to show is when they come in at 100.

My mom always says, where else are you going to go?

When they come in texting every day, calling you all the time, super, super, super communicative.

And then you get the crickets and the go.

Well, then, yes, there's a shift in behavior.