Sabrina Zohar
đ€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Something is up.
But intrinsically, instinctually, is their texting behavior a gauge of their interest?
Absolutely not.
My partner texts me every other day just to confirm plans.
Or, hey, hope you have a great day.
Talk to you later.
We did not engage.
We're three years later and here we are.
I don't need to text him every day because we have a beautiful relationship.
So we need to start to look at what else is there.
And if all you have is texting, you don't have a relationship.
Does she?
Where we have the issue is the story and the narrative that's being created, right?
Otherwise, there's no issue.
But we've put, texting is a dopamine addiction fuel, the same as a slot machine.
We are waiting.
So dopamine is released in anticipation of, not when you get the reward.
That's why waiting for the text, where is it, where is it, where is it?
And we're like fiending for a fix because that's a drug.
Versus then when you get it, you get the serotonin bump, but then you need more because then there's another text and they wait it and we start to get hypervigilant.