Sabrina Zohar

You are creating how they say it, what they say.

And oftentimes we do that and how we would do it.

So if someone texts and you're like, oh,

how my day is versus these guys just sent out an automated text to 30 women that morning.

And we create this whole fantasy based words on a screen.

And then we wonder why we're so upset.

That's why I hate actions speak louder than words.

That's the epitome that they don't.

Because what that person is saying is, I told you I don't want a relationship.

You're still giving me access, so I'm going to take what I have.

You have to tell them that you're not willing to allow that.

Otherwise, they will keep taking it.

Why wouldn't they?

You're not using your voice.

If you're in countless situationships and you're acknowledging that you're in situationships, you're not communicating because what is a situationship?

It's a relationship without boundaries, without clear communication and without asking for your needs to be met.

Start asking for your needs to be met.

Start taking up space and then you'll start to see your relationships change.

It's entirely possible that in the moment, they did like you.

And then they went home and went, actually, you know, and like, I hate to say it as if I haven't done it.