Sabrina Zohar

There's other things along the way.

But somebody that's emotionally unavailable, what we have to look and say is it doesn't mean they're a bad person.

But what that means is that they can only meet you as deeply as they've met themselves.

And if that person...

is saying, emotions are scary.

I don't want to be vulnerable.

That makes me uncomfortable.

Then how do you think they're going to hold your space?

How do you think they're going to be able to show up?

Because a lot of people look and say, oh, come on, it's just a relationship.

Why won't you commit to me?

Well, what comes with commitment?

Commitment comes with having to be accountable to somebody else's emotions and feelings.

You were both that you're married.

I'm in a relationship, you know.

Being committed to somebody is more than just you go to the movies or you go to the park together.

That's holding space.

That's learning to regulate.

That's learning to coexist with somebody else.

And if somebody's not in that space, my partner, he lost his sister three years ago before we met.