Sabrina Zohar

The person that doesn't call you, it's, that's okay.

Maybe they're going through something.

I don't need to make it about me.

But oftentimes the reason we go after these emotionally unavailable people is because they're familiar.

They're familiar, they're safe, and it's a baseline because if that's all you've known, then that's all you're going to do.

You can't do better until you know better.

Do you take private clients?

100%.

I have a few that come to mind.

The first one is, my favorite question to ask on a first date is, how did your last relationship end and what did it teach you about yourself?

I don't care about your ex.

I really, I could give a shit.

What I care about is, what did you learn from it?

Are you growth-minded?

Do you take accountability and ownership?

For instance, the biggest thing that narcissists will say is, all my exes are crazy.

Okay, well, if all of your exes are crazy, what's your accountability in it?

Do you have any empathy for their experience?

That off the bat shows us no thank you.

Another thing that I always suggest to run is when somebody tries to say you deserve better.