Sabrina Zohar
đ€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Because when someone says you deserve better, what they're saying is, I'm not going to become the version of what you need me to be, so you should find somebody else.
We also want to look, what happens when you say no?
That doesn't work for me.
Do they respect your boundaries?
Are they pushing back?
I've had that, right?
When I dated, if somebody said, I want to go out at 10 o'clock, I would say, oh, no, I go to bed by 930.
I apologize.
That doesn't work for me.
Why don't we do six?
Oh, wow.
What?
Is there something wrong?
Is your babysitter not going to let you...
Because you didn't respect what I had to say.
So then what are we leading towards if off the bat you're making fun of me for setting a boundary?
So I think what's important is we're so focused on are they choosing me?
Are they going to pick me?
That we end up self-abandoning and say my wants, needs, and desires don't matter.
I need you to like me.