Sabrina Zohar

Men are the one who get to make a decision. I feel like no guys like me. And honestly, what I see more often than not is like, we just keep going for the opposite of what we're not receiving, right? So for a lot of the women that keep going for these emotionally unavailable men, the one that are discrediting him, listen, of course we all want the 1%.

We all want the 6'5", tall, blue-eyed finance, right? Like every girl wants a Helmsworth. But then we also have to look and go, well, who am I, right? Like, who am I to show up and say, oh, I deserve all of these things. Same with men. It's anybody, right? You got to kind of understand what's realistic in life. But to all the guys out there, I could tell you this right now.

We all want the 6'5", tall, blue-eyed finance, right? Like every girl wants a Helmsworth. But then we also have to look and go, well, who am I, right? Like, who am I to show up and say, oh, I deserve all of these things. Same with men. It's anybody, right? You got to kind of understand what's realistic in life. But to all the guys out there, I could tell you this right now.

We all want the 6'5", tall, blue-eyed finance, right? Like every girl wants a Helmsworth. But then we also have to look and go, well, who am I, right? Like, who am I to show up and say, oh, I deserve all of these things. Same with men. It's anybody, right? You got to kind of understand what's realistic in life. But to all the guys out there, I could tell you this right now.

Women have no idea what the fuck they're doing either. I can tell you that with certainty. Women are equally as anxious, equally as unsure, equally as insecure. And if you're going after the women that are avoidant or being dismissive or pushing you away or shutting down, please stop internalizing as that's you because I'm here to let you know that is not about you. That's their bullshit.

Women have no idea what the fuck they're doing either. I can tell you that with certainty. Women are equally as anxious, equally as unsure, equally as insecure. And if you're going after the women that are avoidant or being dismissive or pushing you away or shutting down, please stop internalizing as that's you because I'm here to let you know that is not about you. That's their bullshit.

Women have no idea what the fuck they're doing either. I can tell you that with certainty. Women are equally as anxious, equally as unsure, equally as insecure. And if you're going after the women that are avoidant or being dismissive or pushing you away or shutting down, please stop internalizing as that's you because I'm here to let you know that is not about you. That's their bullshit.

That's their own core beliefs. That's their childhood. That's their trauma. And that's their projection onto you. Now, that's not to say that we can't take accountability of our own behavior.

That's their own core beliefs. That's their childhood. That's their trauma. And that's their projection onto you. Now, that's not to say that we can't take accountability of our own behavior.

That's their own core beliefs. That's their childhood. That's their trauma. And that's their projection onto you. Now, that's not to say that we can't take accountability of our own behavior.

But when we are so scared, when we're so crippled by fear, like my friend Masha, she's a brilliant nervous system coach, and she always asks me, are you running towards a goal or are you running away from fear? And I'm always like, well, what's the difference? And she's like, let's talk about it. When you're running towards a goal, you know it's going to take time.

But when we are so scared, when we're so crippled by fear, like my friend Masha, she's a brilliant nervous system coach, and she always asks me, are you running towards a goal or are you running away from fear? And I'm always like, well, what's the difference? And she's like, let's talk about it. When you're running towards a goal, you know it's going to take time.

But when we are so scared, when we're so crippled by fear, like my friend Masha, she's a brilliant nervous system coach, and she always asks me, are you running towards a goal or are you running away from fear? And I'm always like, well, what's the difference? And she's like, let's talk about it. When you're running towards a goal, you know it's going to take time.

You know that it's going to take patience. You know that you're building something, right? So you're building towards something. When you're running away from fear, there's a dysregulation. You're always in survival. You're always trying to get some kind of safety.

You know that it's going to take patience. You know that you're building something, right? So you're building towards something. When you're running away from fear, there's a dysregulation. You're always in survival. You're always trying to get some kind of safety.

You know that it's going to take patience. You know that you're building something, right? So you're building towards something. When you're running away from fear, there's a dysregulation. You're always in survival. You're always trying to get some kind of safety.

and what's so important is creating that internal safety so that you go on a date and it doesn't align and this woman doesn't get your sense of humor she doesn't like that you're more introverted and shy let her go fucking kick rocks without shoes she's not your person you don't need to change who you are to get someone else i'll tell you baby i have my partner now because i've always been me i'm unapologetically showing up like this and if you don't like it that's not my fucking problem everybody is welcomed but it is not my job to keep you here

and what's so important is creating that internal safety so that you go on a date and it doesn't align and this woman doesn't get your sense of humor she doesn't like that you're more introverted and shy let her go fucking kick rocks without shoes she's not your person you don't need to change who you are to get someone else i'll tell you baby i have my partner now because i've always been me i'm unapologetically showing up like this and if you don't like it that's not my fucking problem everybody is welcomed but it is not my job to keep you here

and what's so important is creating that internal safety so that you go on a date and it doesn't align and this woman doesn't get your sense of humor she doesn't like that you're more introverted and shy let her go fucking kick rocks without shoes she's not your person you don't need to change who you are to get someone else i'll tell you baby i have my partner now because i've always been me i'm unapologetically showing up like this and if you don't like it that's not my fucking problem everybody is welcomed but it is not my job to keep you here

And I want everyone to embody that because who you are is amazing. But I need you to believe that because I can't be the one to tell you that.