Sabrina Zohar

You're still giving me access, so I'm going to take what I have.

You have to tell them that you're not willing to allow that.

Otherwise, they will keep taking it.

Why wouldn't they?

You're not using your voice.

If you're in countless situationships and you're acknowledging that you're in situationships, you're not communicating because what is a situationship?

It's a relationship without boundaries, without clear communication and without asking for your needs to be met.

Start asking for your needs to be met.

Start taking up space and then you'll start to see your relationships change.

It's entirely possible that in the moment, they did like you.

And then they went home and went, actually, you know, and like, I hate to say it as if I haven't done it.

I've done that.

I've been out on the date going, this person's great.

Then you go home going, wait a minute, did he actually say what I thought he said?

Or no, I'm actually don't really like this.

And you just decide that's why we're dating.

And I think what I'm seeing now really big is that we want certainty.

I need to know that before I've gone out with you, that you want to date me.

You want to be in a relationship.

You want to get married because we don't trust ourselves.