Sabrina Zohar
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You prioritize how your friendships are. It's just another priority. And if you're telling me, well, I don't prioritize that, it's like, well, then there you go. You're not ready for a relationship. It's okay.
You prioritize how your friendships are. It's just another priority. And if you're telling me, well, I don't prioritize that, it's like, well, then there you go. You're not ready for a relationship. It's okay.
Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?
Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?
Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?
Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?
Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?
Which is fine. Listen, you're allowed to believe anything you want. I will never try to dissuade you. But what I would say is then you're chasing a feeling. You want, I wanted to feel sexy. I wanted to feel this. But the reality is that is going to fade. That's not going to last forever.
Which is fine. Listen, you're allowed to believe anything you want. I will never try to dissuade you. But what I would say is then you're chasing a feeling. You want, I wanted to feel sexy. I wanted to feel this. But the reality is that is going to fade. That's not going to last forever.
Which is fine. Listen, you're allowed to believe anything you want. I will never try to dissuade you. But what I would say is then you're chasing a feeling. You want, I wanted to feel sexy. I wanted to feel this. But the reality is that is going to fade. That's not going to last forever.
Which is fine. Listen, you're allowed to believe anything you want. I will never try to dissuade you. But what I would say is then you're chasing a feeling. You want, I wanted to feel sexy. I wanted to feel this. But the reality is that is going to fade. That's not going to last forever.
Which is fine. Listen, you're allowed to believe anything you want. I will never try to dissuade you. But what I would say is then you're chasing a feeling. You want, I wanted to feel sexy. I wanted to feel this. But the reality is that is going to fade. That's not going to last forever.
If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassionate empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?
If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassionate empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?
If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassionate empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?
If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassionate empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?
If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassionate empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?
So what we want to see is if I just show up in a workout outfit looking like this and you and I have a great fucking conversation over coffee, that is more important than I got all dressed up. He took me to this amazing dinner, but then I never heard from him again. because it's performative, right? And so that's why I would say, do what feels comfortable for you.
So what we want to see is if I just show up in a workout outfit looking like this and you and I have a great fucking conversation over coffee, that is more important than I got all dressed up. He took me to this amazing dinner, but then I never heard from him again. because it's performative, right? And so that's why I would say, do what feels comfortable for you.
So what we want to see is if I just show up in a workout outfit looking like this and you and I have a great fucking conversation over coffee, that is more important than I got all dressed up. He took me to this amazing dinner, but then I never heard from him again. because it's performative, right? And so that's why I would say, do what feels comfortable for you.