Sabrina Zohar

If you trust yourself that no matter what, you'll be okay.

You'll ask the right questions.

You'll vet them properly.

And you'll decide if this works for you.

That's what we need to focus on.

I would have to argue and say, what are you looking for?

Because if you're chasing a feeling, you can't be surprised when you don't find it.

When you're chasing something that is just momentary, then you're left with a human after.

And so if they're perfect on paper, then I think what we need to look and say is, what are you actually looking for?

Because that's a cognitive dissonance.

I say I want this.

And then these are the people that I date.

There's a disconnect.

So then I would say, well, then you're chasing a feeling because the spark, as we spoke about earlier, is usually your nervous system trying to tell you to run and sending blood to your phalange so you could get out of there.

But they're attractive.

If you don't have the spark, that doesn't mean it's bad.

What I would look at is, are you interested in topics that they talk about?

Do you like what they have to say?

Are you intrigued and interested in talking to them?

If that's the answer, doesn't matter about the spark.