Sabrina Zohar
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You get to choose.
God, I hate that saying.
It is myopic.
It is not understanding human relationships, and it is keeping people single longer than they need to be.
Want and do are two different parts of the brain.
Instead of projecting onto them, because I'll say this, if you wanted to, you would move on and you're not.
So it takes two.
That is the salience network at play.
And the salience network, if I went outside and looked for a green car, all I'm going to see is that.
If you don't believe that there are good men, then I could say there's also not good women or not good days.
There are amazing people, but if you're not finding them, then we need to start to change the state, the story, and the strategy so that you can have different people enter your life and you can allow different people in your life.
I will disagree.
And the only reason I say that is I think for some people, 100% when they know.
And for other people, it's a bit longer of a journey because some people need time to open up and it might take a minute for you to be able to explore that.
But I think when you know that you don't want that, please listen to that.
And when you know that you do, please listen to it.
But I don't necessarily think everyone has the same journey.
Completely disagree.
I think people can grow and evolve.
I think once a cheater, if you don't take accountability, you will continue to cheat because we need to understand what led you to do that to begin with.