Saje Dyer
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first heard Mar 2026
last heard 25 Mar
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Happiness is the way.
And it resonated with me in this whole new way that, you know, I had this idea that I really bought into that the only way to happiness for me was going to be to stay without children, traveling, doing whatever I wanted.
I live in New York City, just living this life that I thought was so great.
And that was the way to happiness for me.
And now the road that I was on was no longer the way to happiness.
And I was no longer going to be happy.
But what I actually came to find out was that there is actually no way to happiness.
Happiness is the way that happiness is always available to you in your situation that you're in.
My dad always used to say to us, do not process life as you assume it should be, process life as it is.
Because, you know, if life is going as we assume it should be,
it's easy to be happy because we're like, oh, this is what's supposed to be happening.
So I'm having a good time.
As soon as the wind changes and we're thrown something that we do not assume to be good and it's not the way that we want our life to go, that's when it becomes challenging.
And I read this thing recently that said, well, all it said was dance with life.
And I thought about that.
I was on the treadmill and I was like, yeah, you don't, as soon as you start resisting whatever life is bringing you,
you're creating more and more resistance.
And sometimes you're in situations that you just don't have a choice.
So how do you break down that resistance and still find happiness in those ways?
And one of them is by no longer assuming that life should be a certain way.
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