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Sande Golgart

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292 total appearances

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Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

Like, just let... You know, it's like a light and the energy just happens. We don't force it down the wire so that it illuminates the room. It just happens. But as humans, we've thought... that we're here for a certain purpose. Like, I was sent here to be the best insurance salesman of my company. No, you weren't. Nobody was sent here to be an insurance salesman. No one was sent here.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

Like, just let... You know, it's like a light and the energy just happens. We don't force it down the wire so that it illuminates the room. It just happens. But as humans, we've thought... that we're here for a certain purpose. Like, I was sent here to be the best insurance salesman of my company. No, you weren't. Nobody was sent here to be an insurance salesman. No one was sent here.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

We've made all these other things up. You were sent here to be in tune with nature, It realized that we're all the same. We're all from the same source of energy. We're all one, but we're all have the ability to help each other and just be.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

We've made all these other things up. You were sent here to be in tune with nature, It realized that we're all the same. We're all from the same source of energy. We're all one, but we're all have the ability to help each other and just be.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

And then in that, be productive, be positive, be somebody who lives in abundance where you're helping everybody, not in scarcity where you think you have to get your fair share or someone else is going to take it and allow an amazing life to just happen. And that's where that real stretch in between the years comes where you say, Yeah, but how? When I have a mortgage, how?

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

And then in that, be productive, be positive, be somebody who lives in abundance where you're helping everybody, not in scarcity where you think you have to get your fair share or someone else is going to take it and allow an amazing life to just happen. And that's where that real stretch in between the years comes where you say, Yeah, but how? When I have a mortgage, how?

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

When I have a car payment, when I know that I want nice things. And that's what I'm looking forward to understanding even better and being able to bring back to people as a guide to help people see as I went through it. What's it like? Can you really do this? And what things do you really need to be aware of? Because right now it just sounds too simple.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

When I have a car payment, when I know that I want nice things. And that's what I'm looking forward to understanding even better and being able to bring back to people as a guide to help people see as I went through it. What's it like? Can you really do this? And what things do you really need to be aware of? Because right now it just sounds too simple.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

It sounds so simple that people won't do it because you get so afraid, so fearful of what might happen to you. that you jump off that bell curve really early and you're like, I got to go make it happen. There's no way the universe is going to allow great things to happen for me. I have to go do it. So, you know, that's again what I dedicated and devoted myself to is finding out that path.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

It sounds so simple that people won't do it because you get so afraid, so fearful of what might happen to you. that you jump off that bell curve really early and you're like, I got to go make it happen. There's no way the universe is going to allow great things to happen for me. I have to go do it. So, you know, that's again what I dedicated and devoted myself to is finding out that path.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

The fact that you're doing it means you're in it. Like you are being, just keep being. And you go, you just allow more and more great things to happen. I 100% agree with you and I can't wait to hear. Because you're clearly tuning in to how much is waiting for you.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

The fact that you're doing it means you're in it. Like you are being, just keep being. And you go, you just allow more and more great things to happen. I 100% agree with you and I can't wait to hear. Because you're clearly tuning in to how much is waiting for you.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

Yeah. So I think for me, My 25 years of raising kids was all about my kids. I made it about them. I wanted to be the CEO, the senior vice president, making good money for them. That's what I felt was my purpose. When they got out of the house, they went on to great colleges, they had great experiences, they're debt-free, got good jobs.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

Yeah. So I think for me, My 25 years of raising kids was all about my kids. I made it about them. I wanted to be the CEO, the senior vice president, making good money for them. That's what I felt was my purpose. When they got out of the house, they went on to great colleges, they had great experiences, they're debt-free, got good jobs.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

At that point in time, this is when I think it's so critical that your awareness is there, because I realized now is a great time to think about yourself. You, on this playground, have only a certain number of days left. So how can you make the most of them? And I start by doing quick, easy, it wasn't easy at the beginning, daily meditation to just start quieting my mind.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

At that point in time, this is when I think it's so critical that your awareness is there, because I realized now is a great time to think about yourself. You, on this playground, have only a certain number of days left. So how can you make the most of them? And I start by doing quick, easy, it wasn't easy at the beginning, daily meditation to just start quieting my mind.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

And by quieting your mind in the beginning, it's really about paying attention to the thoughts that you have in your head. So I started paying attention to the thoughts in my head. I couldn't believe like how negative they were, how much I felt like the world was holding me back, how I was now becoming older and starting to create doubts about what could you do post 50?

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

And by quieting your mind in the beginning, it's really about paying attention to the thoughts that you have in your head. So I started paying attention to the thoughts in my head. I couldn't believe like how negative they were, how much I felt like the world was holding me back, how I was now becoming older and starting to create doubts about what could you do post 50?

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

What would anyone pay you to do? Starting to pay attention to these things. And I started to realize too, I wasn't really doing all the things I'd love to do. And then as I started working through those things over a couple of years, I started to recognize there was some underlying tension that I had never really paid attention to. My wife had never really paid attention to.

Chief Change Officer
#301 Sande Golgart: What If You’re Winning the Wrong Game? — Part Two

What would anyone pay you to do? Starting to pay attention to these things. And I started to realize too, I wasn't really doing all the things I'd love to do. And then as I started working through those things over a couple of years, I started to recognize there was some underlying tension that I had never really paid attention to. My wife had never really paid attention to.