Sande Golgart

But because we were cleaning our energy and not looking at shaming or figuring out who it was, we started to have discussions about, are you really living your best life? and started to explore some conversations and subjects that would have been very uncomfortable before. And we started to realize that we weren't.

But because we were cleaning our energy and not looking at shaming or figuring out who it was, we started to have discussions about, are you really living your best life? and started to explore some conversations and subjects that would have been very uncomfortable before. And we started to realize that we weren't.

We were suppressing what our real feelings were for life, for each other, for ourselves, to fit a construct of a successful marriage. Which by our own definition was, if you stay married, it's successful. If you don't, it's unsuccessful. Of course, you have to sacrifice and figure out how to make it successful. So we just gave each other permission. We just said, what if we just said,

We were suppressing what our real feelings were for life, for each other, for ourselves, to fit a construct of a successful marriage. Which by our own definition was, if you stay married, it's successful. If you don't, it's unsuccessful. Of course, you have to sacrifice and figure out how to make it successful. So we just gave each other permission. We just said, what if we just said,

divorce is an option doesn't mean it's a failure but let's just not live our life as a as our purpose is to not make something happen what if you my wife who's an amazing person like very fit healthy gorgeous model kind like it's everything you think that you would want I just said, what if you lived exactly the way you want to live?

divorce is an option doesn't mean it's a failure but let's just not live our life as a as our purpose is to not make something happen what if you my wife who's an amazing person like very fit healthy gorgeous model kind like it's everything you think that you would want I just said, what if you lived exactly the way you want to live?

Just the things that you want to do, the things you feel like you're here to do, I'll do the same. And we'll just see, does that bring us closer together or help us recognize maybe we can support each other better by being apart?

Just the things that you want to do, the things you feel like you're here to do, I'll do the same. And we'll just see, does that bring us closer together or help us recognize maybe we can support each other better by being apart?

And through that, by giving ourselves that permission to be ourselves, let our truest self emerge, we both came to the conclusion, with the help also of an energy healer who was helping us understand what was going on, that we were better off and we were going to be more able to support each other. Which is really, when you think about it, it's like,

And through that, by giving ourselves that permission to be ourselves, let our truest self emerge, we both came to the conclusion, with the help also of an energy healer who was helping us understand what was going on, that we were better off and we were going to be more able to support each other. Which is really, when you think about it, it's like,

The ultimate definition of unconditional love is loving someone unconditionally. If it's better for you to go on your own and explore the world, then I'm here for you. I'm here for that. I can support you in that effort. And I too owe it to myself to support myself and love myself enough to let my best version emerge. And just because that we're concluding

The ultimate definition of unconditional love is loving someone unconditionally. If it's better for you to go on your own and explore the world, then I'm here for you. I'm here for that. I can support you in that effort. And I too owe it to myself to support myself and love myself enough to let my best version emerge. And just because that we're concluding

Doesn't mean that we're going to stay together. That doesn't mean it's a failure. That means in my mind now, it's an even greater success because I'm not requiring you to stick around, bury some things that you would really prefer to come out in the rest of your life because of me. I don't want to be that burden. I want to support you. I want to be your biggest cheerleader.

Doesn't mean that we're going to stay together. That doesn't mean it's a failure. That means in my mind now, it's an even greater success because I'm not requiring you to stick around, bury some things that you would really prefer to come out in the rest of your life because of me. I don't want to be that burden. I want to support you. I want to be your biggest cheerleader.

And if I can do that to me is the best form of unconditional love. Same with for myself. Dare to love yourself enough that you actually pay attention to these things. And then you go and track your next opportunities and really experience your life. So one of the things that we found out, because this can be very confusing to your listeners, our energies are pointed in very different directions.

And if I can do that to me is the best form of unconditional love. Same with for myself. Dare to love yourself enough that you actually pay attention to these things. And then you go and track your next opportunities and really experience your life. So one of the things that we found out, because this can be very confusing to your listeners, our energies are pointed in very different directions.

So my wife is an empath. She takes on people's energy and her energy in life is wanting to simplify and get things very peaceful. My energy is very big. I want to go on and

So my wife is an empath. She takes on people's energy and her energy in life is wanting to simplify and get things very peaceful. My energy is very big. I want to go on and

figure this thing out I want to share it with people I want to tour the world I want to do big things those energies are very hard to coexist and I what I realized is she takes on the burden of my big energy which is suffocating to her so the more I'm trying to be who I want to be the more I feel like

figure this thing out I want to share it with people I want to tour the world I want to do big things those energies are very hard to coexist and I what I realized is she takes on the burden of my big energy which is suffocating to her so the more I'm trying to be who I want to be the more I feel like