Sara Al Madani
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
I want to change them.
I want to make them the way I am because that makes me happy.
First of all, selfish, wrong intention, ill intention.
The intention day one is to change somebody.
And that's not what it should look like.
It should be accepting someone.
It should be loving them for who they are, accepting them for who they are.
Actually, what makes relationships interesting is the differences we have between us.
We should celebrate the differences, not dim each other's differences and try to pull each other on each other's side, like come to my side.
No, in relationship, both couple have to work together to be the best version of themselves.
So obviously we're expecting growth.
I expect you, you expect me in a relationship to grow.
It's as simple as that.
Even trees grow like we have to grow.
But to go in and say, oh, my God, she wears a lot of short clothes.
She clubs.
I'm a change all of that.
Why?
Leave her for a man that loves her for who she is.
If your intention is to change, day one, wrong relationship to walk in.