Sara Al Madani
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
It's as simple as that.
Totally.
This is the way children are as well.
Children, they don't understand by what you say.
No matter how much you sit and scream and tell them, they watch how you do and they become.
I think all of us humans were like that.
If people tell us, we become stubborn and we fight back and we're a bit resistant.
We want to remain authentic to our personality.
But when you watch something and you watch how much value it brings to someone's life, you slowly...
you know, join them.
I believe people change, but at the same time, I don't believe it's my responsibility to give enough chances until somebody changes.
Like it's not my job to wait on someone to change because what if they don't?
So there is a chance there, right?
And I'm not willing to take a risk.
For example, let's say I'm 39 now, I'm turning 40 next year.
And I'm with this guy and he's not even sure if he wants to be in a relationship or have kids or he's like, let's take it step by step.
But I might not be fertile two years from now.
I could have been with someone else who's ready and had a family, right?
When you are with somebody and there is like promises and all that, there is a risk.
How much risk are you willing to take?