Sara Al Madani

I always try to teach people this, and it's hard because we've been taught growing up that we need love and we need to be in a relationship.

We need kids.

We need all of these things.

But we actually don't.

We're here to experience life.

Whether love or children is part of the experience, great.

Whether it's not, you should be content with yourself.

Only when you're content and you don't need anybody, this is when you actually bond with someone and you purely love them.

But if you need them, it's like there is always a hidden agenda.

And once that need is fulfilled, you feel like you're disconnected from them because you didn't really want to be with them from the get-go.

You just needed something from them.

So this is why I always say, be whoever you want to date, be whoever you need for yourself, and then go out there and get whatever you want.

It's hard because we've been programmed all our life not to think like that.

So imagine after 30 something years, I'm trying to change the way I think.

Neuroscience, they say neuropaths can be created in 21 days.

So you can, it's not impossible.

We just have to remove the limiting belief.

And that's the hardest part.

When I was younger, and I think a lot of people will agree, I thought mysterious men were so sexy.

I thought the more mystery, the more beautiful it is, the more.