Sara Rathner
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
There you go.
Yeah, I knew he was marriage material because I didn't have to share a bathroom with his roommates and deal with the mess.
Yeah.
And honestly, as long as one of you has your own place.
There you go.
You get some privacy sometimes.
I mean, you just don't want the other person to judge you.
Like we found that 29% of people think it's a deal breaker when their partner spends money on things that they think are unnecessary.
So you're already judging your partner.
Everyone's so judgmental.
And then so then you don't want that to turn back around on you and your partner to say, hey, I can't believe you spent 200 bucks on this thing that I think is frivolous.
And that makes you a bad boyfriend or girlfriend.
It's just like...
You know, we're all just judging each other too harshly, I think.
But I mean, it's okay to judge, like you should talk about money.
And like, if somebody has spending habits that give you pause, then you should consider that as you move forward with them.
But I think we could all just like have more conversations about things and understand each other's ways of thinking before we rush to judgment.
That's like looking through somebody's search history.
You really don't know.
Find some stuff you don't want to know about another person.