Sarah Kanowski

Yeah, like a betrayal of their relationship or something, which is ridiculous, given I was just her friend and I was there to... I wanted to be there to support her.

And I said, I want to be able to support you, I just don't think I can do it like this.

You know, I remember the first conversation she had with me after she'd left him around what she'd spoken to with the police and...

And she told me, you know, they showed me this pamphlet and it was about domestic violence.

And I was like, that's my life.

This is what I live.

And in the back of my mind, I was like, that can't be right.

Because my life of domestic violence was physical violence and assaults and lots of other things.

And I was like, no, but domestic violence isn't like a jealous husband or someone who is trying to stop you from leaving or someone who tells you what to wear or whether or not you can go out with your friends or any of that sort of stuff.

That, in what I thought at the time, was weird.

It was...

It wasn't DV.

I'm very thankful that I never said that to her.

I remember saying to her at the time, that sounds really hard.

What can we do about it?

That was kind of where I could get to with that conversation.

And then I would notice that whenever I put up a story like an Instagram of like my dogs or something like that and Han would comment on it saying they look cute, he would also comment on the same story.

Her ex.

Her ex would also comment on the same story because we're all following each other on Instagram.

He would never comment on the ones she didn't comment on.