Sarah Kanowski

If I did a workout and I posted my time in my story for CrossFit, she would say, that's fast or that's a good workout or I'll have to catch that and then he will comment after that.

But he never commented on the other ones.

And then I would find out that he's taken the kids without asking or he's not brought them back when he was supposed to bring them back.

And I was starting to draw these dots in my mind that every time I talk to her, he knows about it somehow.

And...

he's then making her life worse.

And so up until February, I tried to maintain the friendship, but then I decided that it looks like I'm part of the problem.

I'm making things worse for her.

Every time we talk, something's going down.

So I'm just not going to, I just have to step back.

And I did say to her at some point, I may have to at some point.

She was really upset, deservedly.

So, because it wasn't,

It wasn't her fault that I was feeling like I couldn't talk to her, right?

But she was the one experiencing the consequences.

You know, I'd already stopped talking to him because I'd seen what he did.

He showed me.

He showed me that...

the DV order that was placed against him with Leanna's name written in it and what he did to take off with her and put her in an unsafe situation.

And I was like, dude, I can't help you anymore.