Sarrah Le Marquand

And because of everything you've been through and the sensitivity with which you've navigated it, you're now very conscious of that.

It's a whole sort of fertility privilege conversation.

So Tanya, for example, said, I feel like people get cranky at me for becoming a mother in a way because I'm no longer representing the infertility community, but the scars of infertility will always be with me.

I was wondering how those words resonate with you.

Absolutely.

It makes so much sense.

There'd be so many other people that would really resonate with what you're saying.

I think it's great that we amplify that too.

Every step of the way looks different for different people.

I wanted to talk then a little bit about what else is happening and life and some of the other things that we talked about.

A quote that also resonated from our last conversation, talking about the roller coaster and being in that limbo.

My word, not yours.

Your word was, there's been a lot of loss.

I'm finding it really hard to balance still trying to live my life while I try to create a life.

I would argue that that's probably something that resonates with people even experiencing different turbulent chapters that are out of our control in this world where you're dealing with something with no foreseeable outcome.

But you're trying to, as a young woman, you're trying to maintain a very busy and very successful and very fulfilled life.

are you already feeling a little bit of a shift of coming back more slightly into the present and you do have a very real sort of tangible outcome here in terms of dates well for the first time in my life there seems to be a finish line yes which is only finishes the pregnancy part and then you know the parenting thing starts and to be perfectly honest it's been so hard to get

They will have their own strongly held opinions of what things look like in your household.

Look, I love that.

And I think that's so important.