Sean Pyles

Tip them well if you can.

I think it goes to show that your time is love and the more time you spend together, the better your relationship is going to be.

Sometimes it's best to close that laptop, just spend time with your loved ones.

So I guess be on your best behavior financially at all times if you want any sort of love in this country, because people have high standards.

You want to see that people's behaviors as well are, you know,

built in trust and forward planning and all of those things that will give you a secure life later on.

But at the same time, a lot of people are dealt circumstances that are outside of their control that may make it so they don't have retirement savings.

And I think it's okay if you're dating someone and they're in a completely different financial situation than you and you love them very much.

You can make it work because that's what love is.

So I'm loving the grace and thoughtfulness that we're all bringing to this conversation here.

I think that we would all be great partners to anyone based on what we've just been talking about, obviously.

That said, Sarah, would any of these be absolute deal breakers for you, the topics we've just been discussing around debt, credit score, all of that?

Yeah, I think that points to how we're often talking about money when we're not talking about money.

If you're on a first date and the person who took you out just goes and picks up the check without saying anything, that's a little conversation about money right there and who's spending it and what they want in the relationship.

But eventually you want to get to the point of being explicit and I would say do it sooner than later.

OK, so Elizabeth, you're up next.

Any deal breakers?

Yes.

And why they got into debt.

Because I think about that, too.